1. They’re not dead.
2. They are fine.
3. They miss their loved ones.
4. They are now in perfect health.
5. Life there is hugely better than on earth.
6. They hate to see their loved ones grieving.
7. There’s no such thing as a devil or hell.
8. They wish they had told their loved ones that they loved them more often.
9. They are sorry for any pain they caused.
10. They look forward to a happy reunion when the time comes.
(Tom: Apart from number 5. this has a lot of truth in it. It makes more sense when you realise you are an immortal, indestructible spiritual being.)