Validating Rightnesses

Kerri's Husband At Checkout

My husband isn’t going to be happy I’m posting this. Tonight, we were at Walmart and as we were checking out, we overheard this young guy’s conversation with the cashier.

He said, ‘I worked all summer long. So, I told my mom she didn’t have to spend a dime on my school supplies this year.’ Next thing I know my husband is shaking this guy’s hand and paying for his school supplies.

Alan has always valued hard work and he encouraged this guy to continue doing what he was doing, and his future could go anywhere he wanted to take it. I didn’t want to post this just to brag on my husband. But also to brag on this young guy! In a world where we are so quick to ‘share’ the bad things going on, I thought this was just the kind of goodness I needed to see!

Changing The World – One Person At A Time

Paying For Someone Else's Milk

I never planned to start a movement in the middle of a Walmart checkout line—but one carton of milk changed everything that morning.
I’m Frank. Seventy-six. Vietnam vet. My knees sound like gravel when I get out of bed, and my hands tremble just enough to make pouring coffee a challenge. I live alone now. My wife, Joanne, died of lung cancer six years ago. Since then, Tuesdays at Walmart have been my routine—something steady in a world that stopped feeling steady.
Last Tuesday, I wheeled my cart into checkout lane six. I had bread, eggs, and a jar of instant coffee. Nothing special. Just the usual.
That’s when I saw her.
An older woman—maybe early seventies—stood ahead of me. She wore a faded pink coat with the buttons misaligned, like she’d dressed in a hurry. Her cart was nearly empty: a loaf of bread, a single can of soup, and a carton of milk.
When the cashier gave her the total, the woman reached into her purse and pulled out food stamps, coupons, and a few crumpled dollar bills. Her fingers shook as she tried to count the coins. The line grew restless.
Behind me, a man muttered loud enough for everyone to hear, “If you can’t afford milk, maybe you shouldn’t be buying anything at all.” His wife snickered. Another younger woman rolled her eyes, whispering about how long it was taking.
I watched the old woman’s shoulders slump. She quietly pushed the carton of milk aside, her face turning red. She didn’t argue. Didn’t complain. Just gave up.
And something in me snapped.
I stepped forward, pulled out my wallet, and laid a ten-dollar bill on the counter. “Put the milk back,” I said, my voice rougher than I meant. “She needs it.”
The cashier froze. The line went quiet. The woman turned, eyes wide, as if I’d just handed her gold.
“You don’t have to—” she whispered.
“I know,” I said. “But I want to.”
The cashier bagged the milk. The woman’s lips trembled as she reached for the carton. She whispered, “Bless you,” and for a second, her hand lingered on mine. Cold, fragile, but steady in its gratitude.
That could’ve been the end of it. Just one Tuesday, one small act.
But it wasn’t.
The next week, I brought a notepad with me. Before I left home, I tore out a sheet, wrote six words, and folded it in half: If you see someone struggling, help.
When I got to Walmart, I taped that paper to the card reader stand at checkout lane six. Didn’t make a speech. Didn’t wait for applause. Just taped it there and paid for my groceries.
The week after, there were two new notes taped beside mine. One read: “Someone once helped my mom—thank you.” Another said: “Called my dad today after years. You reminded me.”
I stood there, my throat tight, reading those shaky letters. I hadn’t built a church or written a law. I’d just bought milk. But something had caught fire.
Then came the backlash.
The fourth week, a note appeared scrawled in thick black marker: “Stop rewarding laziness. I worked for everything I have. Nobody helped me.”
People were whispering in line. Some agreed. Some shook their heads. It turned the checkout into a battlefield—kindness on one side, bitterness on the other.
I wanted to rip that note down. Instead, I left it. Because maybe that’s the point. Not everyone believes in stepping up. Not everyone wants to. But the conversation? That’s what matters.
That morning, the woman in the pink coat—her name’s Martha, I later learned—found me in the produce section. She pressed a small plastic bag into my hand. Inside was a carton of strawberries, a little bruised but sweet-smelling.
“For you,” she said. “My grandson works at the orchard. Brought too many.”
I tried to protest, but she shook her head. Her eyes watered. “You didn’t just buy milk. You reminded me I still matter.”
I swear to you, those words hit harder than any medal pinned on my chest.
By the sixth week, checkout lane six had become something else. A bulletin board. A confession wall. [This story was written by Things That Make You Think. Elsewhere it’s an unauthorized copy.]Dozens of folded papers, taped with gum, stickers, whatever people had. Notes that said:
“I left groceries on a neighbor’s porch today.”
“My daughter finally called. Thank you.”
“I bought coffee for the man who sleeps by the bus stop.”
And yes, a few more angry ones too: “This is just virtue signaling.” “No one helped me when I struggled.”
But the positive outweighed the poison.
One teenager scribbled: “Kindness isn’t charity. It’s contagious.”
I stood there, groceries in my arms, and realized something I wish I’d understood years ago: We wait for politicians, pastors, heroes to fix the world. But maybe it starts in aisle six, with ten dollars and a carton of milk.
Yesterday, as I was leaving, I saw a young man—tattoos up his arm, hoodie pulled low—step forward in line. The woman ahead of him was short two bucks. He paid without a word. Didn’t even look for thanks. Just did it.
When he walked past me, he nodded at the notes taped to the card reader. “Guess it’s catching on, old man.”
I smiled. My knees ached, my hands shook, but my chest felt lighter than it had in years.
I’m not telling you this to brag. I’m telling you because I’ve learned something the hard way:
Kindness isn’t charity. It’s a mirror. It reflects what we choose to see in each other.
Some people see laziness. I choose to see dignity. Some see weakness. I choose to see humanity.
So tomorrow, when you’re standing in line, and someone is fumbling with coupons or counting out coins—don’t roll your eyes. Don’t mutter about laziness. Step up. Be the note in someone else’s aisle.
Because here’s the truth: you never know when one carton of milk might change the world—or at least someone’s world.

There’s a Million Ways To Help

The Prinicipal's Haircut

The call came during second period—calm, but with an edge. “Can you come down to Room 12? One of the eighth graders is refusing to remove his cap.”
When I got to my office, there he was. Jaden. Usually soft-spoken, respectful. But today… he sat curled in the chair like he wanted to vanish. Cap pulled low. He muttered so quietly I almost missed it: “They laughed at me.”
He told me kids in the cafeteria had made fun of his botched haircut. He slowly lifted his cap. His hair was butchered—lines jagged, patches bald. I could’ve written him up. But rules aren’t always what kids need.
I stood and walked over to my cabinet and pulled out my old barber kit. Before I became a principal, I cut hair to pay for college. “Let me help, yeah?” I asked.
He nodded. I draped a towel over his shoulders and started shaping him up. As the first smooth line buzzed into place, he exhaled—like someone finally let him breathe again. And then he started talking. About how laughter hurts worse when it follows you all the way home.
As I adjusted the angle for a final fade, I noticed something. Scars. Tiny, raised lines etched into the back of his scalp. I froze for half a second. “These… from something recent?” I asked softly.
He didn’t answer right away. Then he whispered: “That’s where they hit me. Last year. When we were still at our old place.”
I turned the clippers off. “Who’s ‘they’?” I asked.
He didn’t look at me. And then he said something that made my blood run cold, “My mom’s ex-boyfriend,” he whispered, his voice so small it was almost swallowed by the quiet hum of the office. “He… he used to get mad. At her. At me. He’d throw things. The last time, it was a coffee mug.”
The clippers in my hand suddenly felt impossibly heavy. The botched haircut, the hat, the fear—it wasn’t just about shame. It was about hiding. It was about survival.
“Jaden,” I said, my voice steady despite the rage coiling in my gut. “Is he still around? Is your mom okay?”
He finally looked at me in the mirror, his eyes wide and haunted. “We left. A few months ago. We have a new apartment now. It’s supposed to be better.” He paused. “But he found us.”
My blood ran cold. “When, Jaden?”
“Last night,” he choked out, a single tear tracing a path through the tiny clipped hairs on his cheek. “He was waiting outside. He told my mom he was sorry. He said he’d changed. She… she let him in.”
The haircut. It wasn’t his cousin. It was him. A clumsy, cruel attempt at an apology, or worse, a mark of ownership.
I put the clippers down. The haircut was over. My real job was just beginning.
“Okay,” I said, my voice leaving no room for argument. I put my hands on his shoulders, turning him to face me. “Here is what’s going to happen. You are not going home on that bus today. You are going to stay right here with me. We’re going to call your mom, and we’re going to call some people who can help. People who make sure men like that go away and never come back. Do you understand?”
He just nodded, a wave of relief so profound it seemed to uncurl his hunched shoulders.
For the next two hours, my office became a command center. I called Child Protective Services. I called the police. I spoke to Jaden’s mother, who sobbed on the phone, admitting she was terrified but didn’t know what to do.
When she arrived at the school, she wasn’t alone. A police officer and a social worker were with her. They had a plan. An emergency protective order. A new place to go, a shelter with security, where he couldn’t find them.
As Jaden got ready to leave with his mom, he stopped at my office door. His hair was perfect—a sharp, clean fade. But more than that, his eyes were clear. The fear was still there, but it wasn’t hiding anymore.
“Thank you,” he whispered.
“You’re a good kid, Jaden,” I said, my voice thick. “You deserve to feel safe.”
He reached up and touched the back of his head, where the scars were now hidden beneath the clean lines of his new haircut. “You know,” he said, a small, hesitant smile on his face. “You’re a pretty good barber.”
I just smiled back. “I’m a better principal.”
That day, I broke a school rule. But I had followed a much more important one. I had listened. I had seen a child who was hiding, and instead of punishing him for the hat, I had asked him why he needed it. Sometimes, the most important thing a kid needs isn’t a lesson. It’s a safe harbor. And a decent haircut.
Credit to the respective owner

Making The World A Better Place – One Person At A Time

Spaghetti Dinner

Every Sunday, I cook a big pot of spaghetti. Habit from when my kids were small. Thing is, they’re grown now. Moved away. But the pot? I still make it. Too much food for one person.
For months, I ate in silence. Half went in the fridge. The rest, the trash. Then one Sunday, I saw my neighbor’s teenage boy sitting on the curb, head in hands. I called out, “You eaten?” He shook his head. I handed him a plate.
He came back the next week. Then his sister. Then two more kids from down the block. Before I knew it, my Sunday table was full again. Kids, neighbors, even the delivery driver once. I didn’t invite them formally. They just showed up.
Now, every Sunday at 6, my door stays open. The spaghetti’s ready. Nobody knocks, they just come. Some bring bread, some bring nothing. Doesn’t matter. We eat. We laugh. We’re family, even if we don’t share blood.
That empty table that used to ache? It’s alive again. And so am I.
— Linda Harper, Cleveland, OH

Making The World A Better Place, One Person At A Time

Breakfast Waffles

I was standing in a queue when I heard the cashier shouting at an old lady. She was crying. I stepped out of line, walked up to her, and asked gently, “Why are you crying?”
The cashier snapped at me, “Mind your own business. She can’t pay for her bread and eggs. She’s begging me to give them for free, and I told her to leave.” Everyone else in line just gave her disgusted looks.
I couldn’t bear it. I paid for her groceries and offered to walk her home. She smiled softly and said, “I only live two blocks away.” After finishing my shopping, I made her sit in my car and dropped her home. Before getting out, she hesitated and asked, “Son, could you help me carry these groceries inside?”
At first, I felt a little annoyed, thinking maybe she was asking for too much. But when I stepped into her house, two small children — maybe 5 and 3 years old — came running to her. Surprised, I asked, “Where are their parents?”
With teary eyes she replied, “They died in a car accident. These little ones have no one but me. We haven’t eaten since last night. I told them I’d get food somehow, but I didn’t have any money. I just prayed, knowing God would send us an angel.”
At that moment, I broke down. I realized I hadn’t just helped with groceries — I had walked straight into the lives of a struggling grandmother and two hungry children. That day, I cooked them a proper breakfast with my own hands. Since then, I visit them every week with groceries. And because I’m a chef, I regularly invite them to my restaurant to eat with me.
Sometimes, being human is just about showing up when God places you in someone’s path.

Quote of the Day

“Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.” Albert Schweitzer – Humanitarian (1875 – 1965)

Think Outside The Box To Build Better Boxes

Mud House, Bamboo Frame

In 2005, a devastating earthquake struck Northern Pakistan, killing 80,000 people and leaving over 400,000 families without a home. Amidst the rubble, a remarkable woman named Yasmeen Lari saw a chance to rebuild not just houses, but hope.

Yasmeen is Pakistan’s first female architect. For years, she designed large, modern buildings for corporations, but the 2005 tragedy changed her path.

She turned her focus to helping the people who had lost everything. She began designing homes that were not only safe but could be built by the villagers themselves.

Instead of expensive concrete and steel, she turned to the wisdom of the past. Her designs used local, traditional materials like bamboo, mud, and lime.

These materials, when used in her innovative structures, create homes that are surprisingly resilient against earthquakes. The buildings are designed to be low-cost, zero-carbon, and zero-waste.

She founded the Heritage Foundation of Pakistan to teach these techniques, empowering communities to build their own safe and sustainable futures. The organization has helped build tens of thousands of these structures.

It’s a powerful example of using simple, God-given materials and knowledge to solve incredible challenges.

Yasmeen Lari’s work has provided shelter for countless families and created a model for disaster-resilient housing around the world.

Sources: Architectural Digest, Heritage Foundation of Pakistan

Courage, Respect, Charity and Inspiration

Old Man With A Cane

“Kid, if you can’t even buy groceries, maybe you shouldn’t be here wasting our time.”

The air tightened. The boy froze, ashamed and angry at once. His jaw clenched. He looked ready to bolt.

I don’t know what came over me. But I slammed my cane down hard on the linoleum. The sound cracked through the checkout lane.

“Hey!” I barked. “Show some damn respect.”

The man turned, annoyed. “Excuse me?”

“You heard me,” I said, voice rough. “You don’t know this boy. You don’t know his battles. Don’t you dare stand there and belittle him.”

A few heads turned. The cashier froze. The man scoffed, gesturing at the boy.

“Oh really? And you do? He’s just another punk kid.”

I felt my chest burn, same as it did years ago when someone disrespected one of my own in uniform. My voice came out low, steady.

“I buried friends who were judged before anyone gave them a chance. Don’t you dare do it again—not in front of me.”

Silence. You could hear the rain on the roof. The man shifted uncomfortably, muttered something under his breath, and looked away.

The boy just stood there, fists tight at his sides, breathing hard.

I pulled out my wallet. The bills were soft from being folded too long. I slid a twenty across the counter.

“Ring it up,” I said. “And keep the change.”

The boy’s eyes shot wide. “Sir, I—I can pay you back. I promise.”

I put a hand on his shoulder, steadying him. “Don’t pay me back. Just promise me something.”

He blinked, waiting.

“Next time you see someone carrying a load—doesn’t matter if you can see it or not—you carry it with them.”

The boy swallowed hard, nodded fast. His eyes were wet. “Yes, sir. I will.”

The cashier bagged his food quietly. The boy gathered it up, still shaking, and walked out into the rain.

The man in the tie? He looked at the floor, pretending not to exist. The rest of the line had gone quiet. A mother holding her toddler whispered, “God bless you.”

I didn’t feel like a hero. My knees ached. My voice trembled. But as I left the store, groceries in hand, something inside me felt lighter.

A week later, I went back for more coffee. Rain again, because that’s how this town likes to treat you. As I stepped out of the store, I stopped.

Across the parking lot, near an old sedan, I saw the boy. He was helping an older woman—had to be in her eighties—load heavy bags into her trunk. She tried to wave him off, but he shook his head and kept lifting, careful and steady.
When he turned, our eyes met. He didn’t smile. He didn’t need to. He just gave me a small nod.

I nodded back. My throat tightened.

Driving home, I thought about Linda. She used to say, “George, kindness isn’t about speeches. It’s about action, quiet and simple.”
She was right.

It isn’t about saving the world. It isn’t about grand gestures. Sometimes it’s a twenty slipped across a counter. Sometimes it’s a teenager loading groceries in the rain.

And sometimes… it’s an old man slamming his cane down and refusing to let cruelty win the day.

We don’t always know what someone else is carrying. But if we shoulder just a little piece of it—just enough to let them breathe—then maybe, just maybe, the world gets lighter for all of us.

The world doesn’t change through speeches or politics. It changes in grocery aisles, in rain-soaked parking lots, in the quiet weight of kindness.

Pass it on.