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How can I find my true love?

List the characteristics you want in your ideal partner. Write then down. To use a very old concept, how does a girl know she has found her Mr. Right if she does not know what Mr. Right looks like?
After that it is a sifting game. Simply, the larger the pool of people with whom you associate, the better your chances of finding someone with whom you will be happy.
While there is a definite and unmistakeable chemistry or fire that can exist between two people, having a partner whom you genuinely like and admire is a great place to start. Helluva lot better than living alone and great fires can be fanned from smouldering embers.
Look for those with whom you enjoy spending time, those whose company you enjoy, the individuals you would rather spend time with above others. If nobody fits that category then either you do not mingle with a large enough group of people or you do not mix with the right sort of people or maybe you need to become a more likeable person yourself!
If you do not mix with a large enough group or enough of the right sort, you need to expand your circle of contacts. If you are shy, this can be daunting but it’s a simple enough thing to build your courage. Just think that the worst anyone could do is take a chain saw to you and cop off your head and anything less than that you’re in positive territory.
If you are not a likeable person yourself, start doing good things to and for others. Rebuild your self-respect. You will like yourself, and others, more and more.

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How can I achieve success?

Firstly, define what being a success is for you as you see it at present.
You might need to define success in several areas as we don’t live a one-track life. Personal, emotional, physical, family, relationships, work, financial, social, political, environmental, spiritual etc. What would be your definition of success in each of these areas?
You can’t hit a target unless it’s in your sights. Write down, in detail, what success currently means to you in each area. These are your goals.
To help you identify your goals, focus on your strengths and likes. Look at the things at which you excel or about which you are passionate. It is said that if you earn your living at something you enjoy doing, you will never work a day in your life.
Now you have set goals to reach, you need to work out how to get there. You may have heard the old saying, “Set your goals in concrete and your plans in sand.”
Planning can be split into strategic and tactical. Strategic planning is the broad brush-stroke, high level, general type that is fleshed out by low-level, detailed tactical planning. The combination is a roadmap that defines the steps to the attainment of your goal. Just as on a road trip, there may be a need to alter the particular road you take if a bridge is out, tactical planning needs to be flexible.

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A Quote From Dr. Rashid Buttar

“The last unknown is not outer space. It’s within the body. We are incredible beings capable of incredible things. The perfect piece of machinery is the human body. If we were a car and we put the kind of crap we put into our system and we were a car, we’d only run for 2 weeks. Remember that. Take care of your body, do the right thing, and everything else will fall into place.”