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Ten years ago, I had this tiny old man who came through the liquor store drive-thru every other day. He wouldn’t even look at me—just handed over his money and said he wanted a six-pack of Natty. I spent so much time at the store, and all the regulars were like family to me. But not him. He was just… Pete.
It drove me nuts that he never acted like he knew me.
After about a year, I started telling him jokes from another regular. He didn’t say yes or no, just listened to me absolutely butcher the punchlines. I told him all I wanted in life was to catch him smiling as he drove away. He mostly shook his head and asked if I’d stop holding his beer hostage. I told him someday, *someday*, he’d stop hating me.
We played this game for two more years. Then, one day, after I lovingly slid his beer into his lap, he threw something at me. It was a shirt that said *BEER ANGEL.* My life was made.
After that, Pete started warming up to me. He’d bring little gifts—a figurine of a cow lifting weights, a candle he found near his trash can, and one time, a Playboy because “he liked the girl’s earrings.” His cackling when I saw it is something I’ll never forget.
Six years into our drive-thru friendship, Pete asked if I could run an errand for him. He handed me his debit card and a grocery list, telling me I could spend $20 on myself. I was over the moon. Then he asked if I could cut his hair. He was on oxygen and didn’t think he could make it to the barber anymore. I told him I’d drag him into the shop on a blanket if I had to, but when he declined, I promised to stop by after work.
He greeted my 3-year-old daughter, Violet, and me with chocolates filled with liquor. He laughed harder than anyone I’ve ever known. Over the next few years, I visited him regularly, cutting his hair, chatting while he did crosswords, and bringing him lottery tickets.
Pete was funny without trying and hilariously awful in the best way. One day, I mentioned something my dad had said and referred to myself as “Kate.” He looked at me and said, “Is your name Kate? I just thought it was ‘butthole.’” I laughed and told him my family calls me Kate, and it makes me feel loved.
A few visits later, he handed me a check, and when I got to the car, I saw it was made out to “Kate.” I cried.
The last time I saw him, he called me “sweetheart” as I left. I looked back at him—so tiny and frail—and said, “I prefer ‘butthole.’” He laughed, and I left smiling.
A couple of weeks later, I drove to Dexter for his funeral. There were only a few people there, and I stood off to the side, crying. After the service, they all came up to me and said, “You must be Kate! He talked about you all the time!”
It’s been a year since Pete passed, but Violet and I talk about him often. I sure miss him.
Please, be kind to people. Obnoxiously, annoyingly, insanely kind. You never know how much it might mean.
Credit: Katie Sawyer
“Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people.” – Socrates, Philosopher (469 – 399 BC)



Every year, a high school in Regina, Saskatchewan, hosts a truly heartwarming event — a senior prom like no other.
The guests of honor? Elderly people from low-income communities, many of whom live alone with little or no company.
The students prepare a full dinner, help them get dressed, organize transportation — making sure no one is left behind. And for one magical evening, they gift them a night of music, joy, laughter, and dignity.
Some haven’t danced in decades.
Others are simply moved to be seen, heard, and embraced.
For one night, grandparents become young again…
And teenagers learn what it means to have a big, compassionate heart.
This beautiful tradition has been changing lives for nearly 30 years — a powerful reminder that empathy can be taught.
Hats off to these students and their school!
They’re not just shaping future professionals…
They’re shaping real human beings.

Famed “Harry Potter” author J.K. Rowling became a vocal critic of transgender ideology back in 2019, when she supported a woman who lost her job for saying that biological sex is immutable. In 2020, Rowling’s tweets and essay argued that prioritizing “gender identity” over biological sex threatens women’s rights and safety, drawing from her experience as an abuse survivor. She faced fierce backlash, was branded a “TERF” by activists, and even endured death threats, but stood firm.
Rowling’s stance has only grown more defiant as she continues to call out the bullying tactics of trans activism and the erasure of women. Despite relentless attacks from activists, media outlets, and even cast members from “Harry Potter,” her unapologetic wit and unwavering resolve have made her a leading voice of resistance against a radical ideology that silences dissent. This week, she once again proved why she remains a formidable force in the culture war over gender, giving courage to countless women who’ve been too afraid to speak out.
Apparently some people have been attacking Rowling by saying she looks like a “trans woman.” Her response to such attacks says it all:

Talk about a masterclass in rhetorical jiu-jitsu. She takes the intended insult of her critics and flips it right back on them, exposing the hypocrisy at the heart of so much of the pro-trans activist rhetoric.
Rowling’s critics, who claim to be the champions of tolerance and inclusion, routinely stoop to personal attacks and misogynistic insults whenever a woman dares to challenge their orthodoxy. The latest trend is to hurl accusations that Rowling “looks like a trans woman,” a jab that is supposed to be both an insult to her and a defense of trans women. But Rowling, with her trademark wit and clarity, called their bluff.
She pointed out the obvious: If you’re accusing someone of looking like “trans woman” in the pejorative sense, you’re essentially admitting what most people already know: that “trans women” don’t look like real women. Let’s face it, men can grow out their hair, get breast implants, and take whatever drugs they want, but everyone knows what they really are. Calling Richard “Rachel” Levine a woman doesn’t make him a woman. Using female pronouns to refer to Bruce “Caitlyn” Jenner doesn’t change the fact that he is a man. Letting Will “Lia” Thomas compete against real women doesn’t erase what he is.
Rowling refuses to apologize, refuses to play by the ever-changing rules of the woke mob, and instead shines a spotlight on the contradictions baked into their rhetoric, like how calling someone a “trans woman” is supposedly empowering until it’s used as a slur. Her wit, clarity, and refusal to back down force her critics to confront the ugliness of their tactics.
Through years of smears, threats, and public pressure campaigns, Rowling has stood firm, using every attack as an opportunity to expose the movement’s double standards and moral incoherence. In an era when most public figures wilt under pressure, she’s become a symbol of courage for women everywhere who are tired of being silenced. She’s not just defending herself; she’s defending reality, and doing it with a fearlessness that leaves her critics sputtering.
Just because trans activists demand that we all pretend that men who grow their hair out and play dress up are women doesn’t mean that the rest of us have to play along. And when those same activists who have spent years lobbing insults and even death threats at Rowling try to mock her by saying she “looks like a trans woman,” they don’t expose her bigotry; they expose their own hypocrisy. If comparing her to a “trans woman” is meant as an insult, then it’s not Rowling degrading “trans women”; it’s the so-called allies who use the comparison as a punchline. In doing so, they don’t validate their ideology; they reinforce the biological truth they insist everyone ignore.
The attacks on J.K. Rowling reveal just how desperate the radical left has become to crush dissent.
https://www.zerohedge.com/political/jk-rowling-destroyed-trans-ideology-one-savage-tweet
