Paul Stookey

Peter Paul and Mary

He wrote it in one hour. He gave away every penny it ever made. And it became the most beloved wedding song in America.
In the fall of 1969, Paul Stookey got a phone call that would quietly change his life — though he had no idea at the time.
His bandmate and close friend Peter Yarrow was getting married. Peter was one-third of Peter, Paul and Mary, the folk trio that had helped define a generation. His bride was Marybeth McCarthy, niece of Senator Eugene McCarthy. Peter asked Paul a simple question: would he write a song and sing it at the ceremony?
Paul said yes immediately.
But privately, he knew something. This was not a song he could write on his own. Not this one. This needed something beyond his ability.
A short time before the wedding, Stookey went down to the small basement studio of his Connecticut home. He picked up his twelve-string guitar, sat in the quiet, and prayed.
“Lord,” he said, “nothing would bless this wedding ceremony more than Your presence. How would You manifest Yourself?”
Then he picked up a pencil.
For the next hour, words came. Not slowly. Not with struggle. They arrived as though they had been waiting. Stookey later said he did not feel like he was composing. He felt like he was transcribing. The pencil moved across the page and all he had to do was allow it.
The first words he wrote were: “I am now to be among you at the calling of your hearts.”
Just one hour before the ceremony, he sang it for his wife Betty. She loved it, but she caught something. “They won’t understand ‘I am now to be among you,’” she told him. “They’re going to think you’re presuming to be God.”
Stookey thought about it. She was right. He changed one word.
“He is now to be among you at the calling of your hearts. Rest assured this troubadour is acting on His part.”
On the evening of October 18, 1969, at Saint Mary’s Catholic Church in Willmar, Minnesota, Paul Stookey stood before the congregation as Peter Yarrow’s best man. He held his guitar and sang the song for the first time.
It was meant to be a private gift. A blessing between friends. He assumed it would never be sung again.
Several weeks later, backstage before a Peter, Paul and Mary concert, Peter leaned over and made a request. His wife was in the audience. Would Paul sing the song for her?
Paul stepped to the microphone and played. The audience went still. There was something in that simple melody — unhurried, vulnerable, honest — that reached people in a way no one had expected.
He kept singing it. And people kept asking.
When the trio took a leave of absence from performing in 1970, Stookey recorded the song for his debut solo album, Paul And…. The single, “Wedding Song (There Is Love),” was released in 1971. It entered the Billboard Hot 100 and climbed to number 24. On the Easy Listening chart, it reached number 3.
But here is where the story becomes extraordinary.
Paul Stookey refused to claim the song as his own.
He had a dilemma. He believed the song had been given to him, not created by him. If he copyrighted it under his name, he would profit from something he felt was never his. But if he claimed nothing, the record company would simply keep the royalties.
So he found a third path. He established the Public Domain Foundation, a charitable trust to receive every royalty the song would ever generate as a composition. He kept none of the songwriting income.
The record company called him with exciting news — The Tonight Show wanted him to perform “Wedding Song” on national television. They told him it could launch a solo career.
“No, thanks,” Stookey said.
Over the decades, the Public Domain Foundation has distributed more than two million dollars to charitable organizations across the United States — soup kitchens, children’s programs, hospitals, music education, and causes Stookey will never see the results of. That two-million-dollar figure was reported in the 1990s. The total has only grown since.
“Wedding Song (There Is Love)” has been covered by Petula Clark, Captain and Tennille, Mary MacGregor, Nana Mouskouri, and many others. It has been performed at countless weddings across America and around the world for more than fifty years. Acoustic guitarists learn it. Brides request it. It has become, for many families, the song that means the beginning.
And Paul Stookey has never taken a cent of the songwriting royalties.
Every year, he turns down requests to perform the song at weddings around the country. His answer is always the same.
“It’s not my song,” he says. “It belongs to every bride and groom who ever had a good friend strum a guitar and sing at their wedding. God gave me a song. It was mine to give away.”
When asked how he explains the song’s origin, Stookey keeps it simple.
“Into every songwriter’s life comes a song, the source of which cannot be explained by personal experience.”
He wrote it in one hour in a basement in Connecticut. He sang it once for two people he loved. He gave away everything it ever earned.
And more than fifty years later, that hour of work is still blessing strangers on the most important day of their lives.
Some songs are written.
Some songs are given.
The difference is what you do with them after.

Stenopelmatus (Jerusalem Crickets / “Potato Bugs”)

Antagonist Name
Stenopelmatus (Jerusalem Crickets / “Potato Bugs”)

Latin Name
Stenopelmatus spp.

Description
Stenopelmatus species are large, flightless, nocturnal insects commonly referred to as Jerusalem crickets or potato bugs. They have robust, segmented bodies, large rounded heads with strong mandibles, and relatively hairless, banded abdomens. Despite their intimidating appearance, they are not venomous. These insects are primarily soil-dwelling and are considered opportunistic feeders, consuming both plant material and small invertebrates. In agricultural contexts, they can become minor pests when feeding on underground plant parts such as tubers and roots.

Life Cycle
Stenopelmatus undergo incomplete metamorphosis (egg → nymph → adult). Females lay eggs in moist soil. Nymphs resemble smaller versions of adults and develop through several molts over one to two years before reaching maturity. Both nymphs and adults live underground and are active primarily at night. They are most problematic during the nymph and adult stages when actively feeding on roots and tubers. Eggs and early instars are vulnerable to desiccation and predation.

Host Plants
Root and tuber crops are most commonly affected, including potatoes, carrots, beets, and sweet potatoes. They may also feed on the roots of other vegetables and occasionally on decaying organic matter in garden beds.

Symptoms and Signs
Damage typically appears as irregular chew marks or cavities in tubers and roots. Plants may exhibit reduced vigor, wilting, or stunted growth due to root damage. Gardeners may notice disturbed soil, small burrows, or the insects themselves when digging. Presence is often detected at night or after irrigation when they come closer to the soil surface.

Environmental Factors
Stenopelmatus thrives in loose, well-drained soils with moderate moisture. They prefer warm climates and are more active during mild, humid nights. High organic matter in soil can support populations by providing food sources. Dry, compacted soils and extreme heat or cold tend to limit their activity and survival.

Preventative Measures
Maintain well-structured soil without excessive organic debris that could attract them. Practice crop rotation, especially with root vegetables. Encourage natural predators such as birds and small mammals. Avoid over-irrigation, which can bring them closer to the surface and increase feeding activity. Physical barriers like fine mesh below raised beds may help protect root crops.

Remedies
Hand removal at night using gloves is effective for small infestations. Trapping methods, such as buried containers with moist organic matter, can attract and capture individuals. Beneficial nematodes may help reduce populations in soil. Maintaining drier surface conditions can discourage activity. Chemical controls are rarely necessary and generally not recommended in sustainable systems.

Severity Rating
Low to Moderate — typically a minor pest but can cause localized damage to root crops under favourable conditions.

Climate Suitability
Best suited to warm, dry to moderately moist climates, particularly in arid and semi-arid regions. Less common or problematic in consistently wet or cold environments.

Intervention Threshold
Intervention is recommended when consistent damage to root crops is observed or when multiple individuals are found per planting area. Occasional sightings without visible crop damage generally do not require action.

Rat-Proof Grain Store

Rat-Proof Grain Store Rat-Proof Grain Store 2

The Romans had no rat traps or poisons so they had to protect their grain stores from rats through other methods or risk starving. They built elevated grain stores with no rat accessible entry points.

Building floor a metre off the ground
Smooth stone pillar supports
With overhang impossible to climb around
No low level entry points
Ventilation via small openings at top of wall
Human access via removable ramps

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Build A Raised Garden Bed With Cinder Blocks

Build A Raised Garden Bed With Cinder Blocks

Stack twenty-eight cinder blocks in a rectangle on the ground. No drill. No saw. No screws. No lumber that rots in ten years. Fill with soil and plant.

The blocks sit flat with the holes facing up. Two courses tall, offset like brickwork so they interlock. A filled bed weighs over a ton — it’s not going anywhere. The walls are eight inches thick. They don’t bow, tip, or fail.

Lay cardboard underneath first to smother the grass. Fill the bottom six inches with rough compost or leaves, the top ten inches with quality soil mix. Water deeply, let it settle overnight, plant the next day.

Here’s what makes this better than wood.

The herb pockets:

– Each block has two open holes on top. Fill each one with potting soil and plant one herb per hole

– Fourteen blocks on the top course means twenty-eight herb pockets running along the entire perimeter of the bed

– Basil, thyme, oregano, chives, parsley, cilantro — a different herb in each hole. They cascade over the block edges by midsummer

– The main bed grows your vegetables. The block holes grow your herb garden. Two gardens from one structure.

No tools. No skills. No rot. A bed that outlasts the lumber version by decades and grows herbs on its own walls.

 

Low-Fuss, High-Return Edibles

Low-Fuss, High-Return Edibles

The vegetable garden everyone admires often belongs to the person who does the least.

Not because they’re lazy — because they planted things that don’t need replanting, don’t need spraying, and produce year after year from the same roots.

Most food gardens run on annuals. You start over each spring, buy new transplants, prep the soil again, and hope the season cooperates. Perennial food plants skip that cycle entirely. They establish once and keep producing — some for decades — with almost no input beyond occasional harvest.

6 perennial food plants that keep going without you:

– Jerusalem artichoke — plant the tubers once and the stand comes back taller each year. The tubers taste like a nuttier, sweeter potato, store in the ground all winter, and you dig them as needed. The only management is deciding where you want the patch to stop spreading.

– Egyptian walking onion — grows bulbils at the top of each stalk that bend the stem to the ground and root themselves. The plant moves about a foot per year, producing mild green onion tops for cutting and perennial bulbs underground.

– Alpine strawberry — fruits from June through frost without runners or netting. Small, intensely flavored berries produced continuously rather than in one heavy flush. Self-seeds gently in paths and borders and handles part shade well.

– Sorrel — a salad green with a bright lemon flavor that survives winter and produces harvestable leaves from early spring through late fall. Cut it to the ground and it returns within a week.

The food garden that lasts isn’t the one you tend the most. It’s the one planted with species that don’t need you to start over each year.

The harvest that keeps coming is the one you stopped worrying about.

The Weed Squad

The Weed Squad

You already know weeds signal soil problems. What most people miss is that many of them are actively fixing the problem while you pull them out.
Dandelions don’t just indicate compaction. Their taproots drill through hardpan that most garden tools can’t reach. As each root decays, it leaves a vertical channel that carries water, air, and earthworms into soil layers that haven’t been loosened in years.
Pulling the dandelion removes the drill. The compaction stays.
White clover does something different — it pulls nitrogen from the atmosphere and converts it into a form plant roots can use. The conversion happens through bacterial colonies living in tiny nodules on the roots. Mow it or let it shed naturally and the nitrogen transfers into the surrounding soil. The fertilizer was already in the lawn. It just looked like a weed.
🌱 Three ways to let weeds work for you instead of against you:
– Leave dandelions in compacted areas through one full season — when the taproots die back naturally, the channels they leave behind improve drainage and root penetration for whatever you plant next
– Stop spraying white clover in the lawn — it feeds the grass around it for free and stays green in dry stretches when turf goes dormant
– Chop comfrey leaves and drop them as mulch around tomatoes or peppers — comfrey roots pull minerals from deep soil layers that shallow vegetable roots can’t access, and the leaves concentrate them at the surface where your crops can use them
The garden sends repair crews before you call for them. The weeds that showed up uninvited are doing work you’d otherwise need to buy amendments to replace.
The weed you keep pulling is the amendment you keep buying

Pest Traps – Sacrificial Plants

Pest Traps - Sacrificial Plants

The smartest pest control in a garden isn’t a spray. It’s a plant so irresistible to the pest that it abandons your vegetables to feed on something you planted specifically to be destroyed.

You sacrifice one cheap, fast-growing plant to save an entire row of expensive crops. The pest gets what it wants. Your harvest stays clean.

Nasturtiums are the easiest place to start. Aphids, cabbage moths, and flea beetles tend to prefer nasturtium foliage over most vegetable crops — the leaves are soft, thin, and easier to feed on than the tougher tissue of your brassicas. Plant a ring around the vegetable bed. When the nasturtiums are covered in aphids, your cabbages are clean. That’s the system working.

Trap plants worth adding to a vegetable garden:

– Nasturtiums around bed edges — draw aphids and leaf-chewing insects away from brassicas and cucumbers. Cheap, fast-growing, and the flowers are edible if the pests don’t get them first

– Blue Hubbard squash at the end of a squash row — vine borers and squash bugs strongly prefer it over most other squash varieties. One sacrificial plant absorbs the pressure so the rest of the row stays productive

– Sunflowers near tomatoes — aphids climb to the growing tip and cluster there, visible and exposed. Ladybugs and lacewings find them quickly. The sunflower becomes an elevated feeding station for beneficial insects while your crops below stay clear

– Alyssum between rows — attracts hoverflies whose larvae consume large numbers of aphids. The trap and the predator recruitment happen on the same plant

The plant you sacrifice saves the harvest you keep.

Live Longer – Take Up Tennis!

Racket Sports

Tennis players live 9.7 years longer than sedentary people.

Not 9.7 months. 9.7 years. Nearly a decade.

The Copenhagen City Heart Study tracked 8,577 people for 25 years and ranked every sport by how much life it adds.

Badminton: 6.2 years. Soccer: 4.7. Cycling: 3.7. Swimming: 3.4. Jogging: 3.2.

Tennis almost triples jogging.

A separate study of 80,000 adults found racket sports cut all-cause mortality by 47% and cardiovascular death by 56%. Swimming hit 41%. Aerobics hit 36%.

The question is why racket sports destroy everything else.

Three mechanisms stack on top of each other.

First, the physical demands. A tennis rally requires explosive sprints, lateral cuts, and sustained aerobic output. You’re training fast-twitch and slow-twitch muscle fibers simultaneously. Most cardio only trains one system.

Second, the cognitive load. You’re reading spin, predicting angles, adjusting position, and executing motor patterns in real-time. Your brain is solving spatial puzzles at 80+ mph. That hand-eye coordination and strategic processing builds neural connections that protect against cognitive decline.

Third, and this is the one researchers keep coming back to: you literally cannot play alone. Every racket sport requires another person on the other side of the net. That forced social interaction triggers neurochemical benefits that solitary exercise cannot replicate. Strong social connection alone increases your chance of longevity by 50%.

Jogging is you and your thoughts. Tennis is you, a strategic opponent, and a community.

Dr. Daniel Amen is right. The data is overwhelming. If you want the single highest-ROI activity for a longer life, pick up a racket.

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Carnivore Diet Handled RFK Jr’s Atrial Fibrillation

RFK jr On Carnivore

RFK Jr. starts most mornings with steak for breakfast, a big bowl of grass-fed yogurt topped with cream, and a generous side of sauerkraut or kimchi.

A year ago, full-body MRIs showed HHS Secretary Kennedy’s organs coated in dangerous visceral fat, despite his lean appearance and four months of atrial fibrillation episodes. His doctor prescribed a strict carnivore diet of meat plus fermented foods like sauerkraut, kimchi, and grass-fed yogurt—no carbs—which he followed for about 250 days. Follow-up scans revealed a 40% drop in visceral fat after 30 days, then the lowest 1st percentile levels, with 20 pounds lost and regained as muscle, and no heart issues since. Kennedy noted half the cabinet follows it too, while emphasizing individual metabolisms vary and sharing sparked personal diet stories from weight loss to energy boosts.

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