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On Finding your Perfect Match

You may have heard that you get that on which you put your attention. That is true. Your intention is a lot more powerful than you have been led to believe. In fact, it is so powerful that a lot of effort has been put into making you  accept the lie that you are only one, weak little person who cannot change much. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you were only one, weak little person who cannot change much, then why put so much effort into convincing you otherwise? But I digress. Let’s get back to the topic at hand.

The best advice I can give on how to land the perfect partner is to first decide the exact characteristics you want in a partner.
All the things you desire.
Write them down.
And be realistic about it.

Things like what goals you would like to share.

What your combined lifestyle should look like.

What their personal values and ethic level should be.

Whether or not they want children.

Their responsibility level.

Etc.

Then decide
1. they are going to come into your life,
2. you will meet and recognise them,
3. they will feel the same about you as you do about them,
4. the circumstances and logistics in both your lives do not prevent the two of you making a go of it together
5. That their goals and purposes align with yours.

Then tuck that piece of paper away at the bottom of your underwear drawer so you
1. don’t lose it and
2. will see it later.

After that you then have to put yourself in places where your ideal partner can find you. If you are a hermit living in remote territory you seriously cut down your chance of your partner finding you.
Some have had success in doing survey work.
If there is no work available where you are you could volunteer or join a club of like-minded people.
But put yourself out there where people can meet you.

Here’s a testimonial posted on Facebook 21 March 2023 from KJ Kotoisuva, someone who did exactly that!

“This sexy, Fijian, tall glass of chocolate milk is exactly what I ordered when I was single, praying and writing down my “Husband” wish list.
Wanna know my secret?
I got specific. I mean weirdly specific.
Write it out.
Pray on it.
Went about living my best life till he came knocking
Just a happy wife brag post!”

And you have to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff, as they say, the good from the bad.
Here are two of the best tools I have come across the help you do that:
https://www.scientology.tv/films/scientology-principles/the-emotional-tone-scale-6f3e2b
https://www.scientology.tv/films-on-scientology-principles/dianetics-introduction.html

Hope that helps.

Oh, and one final thing. Work on improving yourself so you are somebody else’s perfect partner too! I saw a great meme that said:

Attract what you expect
Reflect what you desire
Become what you respect
Mirror what you admire

Let me know when you complete your list!

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Art Garfunkel and Sandy Greenberg

Art Garfunkel and Sandy Greenberg

“Hello darkness, my old friend…” Everybody knows the iconic Simon & Garfunkel song, but do you know the amazing story behind the first line of The Sounds of Silence?
It began 62 years ago, when Arthur “Art” Garfunkel, a Jewish kid from Queens, enrolled in Columbia University. During freshman orientation, Art met a student from Buffalo named Sandy Greenberg, and they immediately bonded over their shared passion for literature and music. Art and Sandy became roommates and best friends. With the idealism of youth, they promised to be there for each other no matter what.
Soon after starting college, Sandy was struck by tragedy. His vision became blurry and although doctors diagnosed it as temporary conjunctivitis, the problem grew worse. Finally after seeing a specialist, Sandy received the devastating news that severe glaucoma was destroying his optic nerves. The young man with such a bright future would soon be completely blind.
Sandy was devastated and fell into a deep depression. He gave up his dream of becoming a lawyer and moved back to Buffalo, where he worried about being a burden to his financially-struggling family. Consumed with shame and fear, Sandy cut off contact with his old friends, refusing to answer letters or return phone calls.
Then suddenly, to Sandy’s shock, his buddy Art showed up at the front door. He was not going to allow his best friend to give up on life, so he bought a ticket and flew up to Buffalo unannounced. Art convinced Sandy to give college another go, and promised that he would be right by his side to make sure he didn’t fall – literally or figuratively.
Art kept his promise, faithfully escorting Sandy around campus and effectively serving as his eyes. It was important to Art that even though Sandy had been plunged into a world of darkness, he should never feel alone. Art actually started calling himself “Darkness” to demonstrate his empathy with his friend. He’d say things like, “Darkness is going to read to you now.” Art organized his life around helping Sandy.
One day, Art was guiding Sandy through crowded Grand Central Station when he suddenly said he had to go and left his friend alone and petrified. Sandy stumbled, bumped into people, and fell, cutting a gash in his shin. After a couple of hellish hours, Sandy finally got on the right subway train. After exiting the station at 116th street, Sandy bumped into someone who quickly apologized – and Sandy immediately recognized Art’s voice! Turned out his trusty friend had followed him the whole way home, making sure he was safe and giving him the priceless gift of independence. Sandy later said, “That moment was the spark that caused me to live a completely different life, without fear, without doubt. For that I am tremendously grateful to my friend.”
Sandy graduated from Columbia and then earned graduate degrees at Harvard and Oxford. He married his high school sweetheart and became an extremely successful entrepreneur and philanthropist.
While at Oxford, Sandy got a call from Art. This time Art was the one who needed help. He’d formed a folk rock duo with his high school pal Paul Simon, and they desperately needed $400 to record their first album. Sandy and his wife Sue had literally $404 in their bank account, but without hesitation Sandy gave his old friend what he needed.
Art and Paul’s first album was not a success, but one of the songs, The Sounds of Silence, became a #1 hit a year later. The opening line echoed the way Sandy always greeted Art. Simon & Garfunkel went on to become one of the most beloved musical acts in history.
The two Columbia graduates, each of whom has added so much to the world in his own way, are still best friends. Art Garfunkel said that when he became friends with Sandy, “my real life emerged. I became a better guy in my own eyes, and began to see who I was – somebody who gives to a friend.” Sandy describes himself as “the luckiest man in the world.”
Adapted from Sandy Greenberg’s memoir: “Hello Darkness, My Old Friend: How Daring Dreams and Unyielding Friendship Turned One Man’s Blindness into an Extraordinary Vision for Life.”
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Inspiration From Mahatma Gandhi

“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it–always.”

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Wild stuff

Smoke From Eyes

During a demonstration against the Israeli government. One of the protesters started screaming, spewing smoke from his eyes, mouth, nose and ears. His brain burned from the inside out. Surprised protesters try to put out the fire, which came from inside the zombie man’s head, with a jacket and a bottle of water. It looks like a sack that encloses with a drawstring. There is another video circulating in which two men smoke from their heads. Both men are known to have been vaccinated. It seems that something inside their head was short-circuited, perhaps caused by microwaves or 5G electromagnetic radiation. What is known is that people who have received the death “vaccine” are subject to internal damage caused by the interaction of electromagnetic waves and are subject to internal damage caused by the interaction of electromagnetic waves and heavy metals, graphene, etc.

https://www.worldtruth.online/video/6708/vaxxed-man%E2%80%99s-head-starts-smoking-at-protest/