42 lessons life taught me by Regina Brett

This is something we should all read at least once a month! Make sure you read to the end! Written by Regina Brett of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio.

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 42 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I’ve ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short – enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.
9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
11. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
12. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
14 Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
15. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
16. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
17. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
18. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
19. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
20. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
21. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
22. The most important sex organ is the brain.
23. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
24. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’
25. Always choose life.
26. Forgive but don’t forget.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
28. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
31. Believe in miracles.
32. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
33. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
34. Your children get only one childhood.
35. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
36. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
37. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
38. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have not what you need.
39. The best is yet to come…
40. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
41. Yield.
42. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”

And So, The End

The View From The Shore

(Tom: I am working hard to make this potential reality a fiction and I know a lot of others are too, bless them.)

“So the final conclusion would surely be that whereas other civilizations have been brought down by attacks of barbarians from without, ours had the unique distinction of training its own destroyers at its own educational institutions, and then providing them with facilities for propagating their destructive ideology far and wide, all at the public expense. Thus did Western Man decide to abolish himself, creating his own boredom out of his own affluence, his own vulnerability out of his own strength, his own impotence out of his own erotomania, himself blowing the trumpet that brought the walls of his own city tumbling down, and having convinced himself that he was too numerous, labored with pill and scalpel and syringe to make himself fewer. Until at last, having educated himself into imbecility, and polluted and drugged himself into stupefaction, he keeled over–a weary, battered old brontosaurus–and became extinct.” Malcolm Muggeridge

Take Time Out

Take Time Out

In chatting to many people I have been able to help them identify their basic purpose. It has always been a specialization of the desire to help.

I think the problem is that we are not taught to look for it, to recognize and pursue it. In many cases we are dissuaded from it – “You can’t make enough money doing that!”

If you would like some ideas on how to identify your basic purpose, here’s a blog post I wrote to help you:

How To Work Out Your Basic Purpose In Life

How To Work Out Your Basic Purpose In Life

What imagination can do!

Kermit and Jim

Back in 1955, a mom named Elizabeth Henson was cleaning out her clothes closet. You know how it goes. Things get old, tattered, don’t fit anymore or become out of style. The smell of mothballs and mildew accompanied these things.

Eventually Elizabeth came to an old, fuzzy, frayed lightweight green jacket. It had outlived its usefulness for sure. It was fit only for the throwaway pile. However, to her surprise, her college age son asked if he could have it.

Why would he want a worthless thing whose time had come and gone? The request didn’t make much sense, but she handed over the green coat.

The son went to work. Armed with scissors, needles and thread and a ton of vision he shaped, crafted and designed. He cut a ping pong ball in half for eyes.

Who would have ever imagined that a misfit green garment would become an American icon, date a prima donna pig, play an Oscar nominated song and impact millions.

The old green coat became the first Kermit the Frog, and the son was Jim Henson.

Credit: Michael Sprague

(Tom: Stick THAT in your pike and smoke it Yuval Noah Harari!

Man IS is spiritual being who DOES have free will, rights and is NOT just a meat body!

Despite what Materialists say, imagination does not come from one cell or an aggregation of cells in the body. It is the direct product of a being. Some would even say that the prime purpose of a being is the purpose to create.)

Yuval Noah Harari, says “Human rights are a fiction.”

Yuval Noah Harari
Yuval Noah Harari, says “Human rights are a fiction.”
“Like Heaven and like God – it’s just a fictional story that we’ve invented and spread around.
It’s just a story – it is not a biological reality. Just as ostriches have no rights – homo sapiens have no rights.
States and nations, like God and Heaven they are just stories. Israel and United States are just stories.” – Yuval Noah Harari
(Tom: This is the Materialist hard at work invalidating God, the fact that you are a spiritual being, the fact that these artificial constructs (Human Rights) are agreements between ourselves, civilizing influences on which we agree to make a better world by providing ‘lines in the sand’.
We have rights because we agree that we have rights. We do not have to have a “human rights” organ in our body to have human Rights.
Get enough people to agree that we do not have rights because they are an agreement and not an object and we will cease to have rights. This is what Yuval wants.
Well I say ‘phooey’ to Yuval! I agree we have rights so I am going to set an example and spread the word to you that YOU DO HAVE RIGHTS!
I hope you also agree that we have rights and also share the word.
If enough people share the word that we have rights then his words will fade, unheeded and be lost in the echoes of a planned dark future that we successfully avoided.)