You may have heard that you get that on which you put your attention. That is true. Your intention is a lot more powerful than you have been led to believe. In fact, it is so powerful that a lot of effort has been put into accepting the lie that you are only one, weak little person who cannot change much. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you were only one, weak little person who cannot change much, then why put so much effort into convincing you of it? But I digress. Let’s get back to the topic at hand.
The best advice I can give on how to land the perfect partner is to first decide the exact characteristics you want in a partner.
All the things you desire.
Write them down.
And be realistic about it.
Then decide
1. they are going to come into your life,
2. you will meet and recognise them,
3. they will feel the same about you as you do about them,
4. the circumstances and logistics in both your lives do not prevent the two of you making a go of it together.
Then tuck that piece of paper away at the bottom of your underwear drawer so you
1. don’t lose it and
2. will see it later.
After that you then have to put yourself in places where your ideal partner can find you.
Some have had success in doing survey work.
If there is no work available where you are you could volunteer or join a club of like-minded people.
But put yourself out there where people can meet you.
After that you then have to put yourself in places where your ideal partner can find you.
Some have had success in doing survey work.
If there is no work available where you are you could volunteer or join a club of like-minded people.
But put yourself out there where people can meet you.
Here’s a testimonial posted on Facebook 21 March 2023 from KJ Kotoisuva, someone who did exactly that!
“This sexy, Fijian, tall glass of chocolate milk is exactly what I ordered when I was single, praying and writing down my “Husband” wish list.
Wanna know my secret?
I got specific. I mean weirdly specific.
Write it out.
Pray on it.
Went about living my best life till he came knocking
Just a happy wife brag post!”
And you have to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff, as they say, the good from the bad.
Here are two of the best tools I have come across the help you do that:
https://www.scientology.tv/films/scientology-principles/the-emotional-tone-scale-6f3e2b
https://www.scientology.tv/films-on-scientology-principles/dianetics-introduction.html
Hope that helps.
Let me know when you complete your list!