Now there is a very large, unspoken caveat for this meme. That you be worthy of trust. And there are two qualities that are prerequisites to trust – competence and reliability. Does the person have the competence required and can they be relied upon? So if you are to be worthy of trust you must be competent and reliable. Can you do everything you would like to be able to do? Do you do everything you say you are going to do by when you say you are going to do it? Even the tasks you set yourself? Those are pretty high standards. But the closer you get to attaining them the happier you will be with yourself. This I know for a fact.