Paul Stookey

Peter Paul and Mary

He wrote it in one hour. He gave away every penny it ever made. And it became the most beloved wedding song in America.
In the fall of 1969, Paul Stookey got a phone call that would quietly change his life — though he had no idea at the time.
His bandmate and close friend Peter Yarrow was getting married. Peter was one-third of Peter, Paul and Mary, the folk trio that had helped define a generation. His bride was Marybeth McCarthy, niece of Senator Eugene McCarthy. Peter asked Paul a simple question: would he write a song and sing it at the ceremony?
Paul said yes immediately.
But privately, he knew something. This was not a song he could write on his own. Not this one. This needed something beyond his ability.
A short time before the wedding, Stookey went down to the small basement studio of his Connecticut home. He picked up his twelve-string guitar, sat in the quiet, and prayed.
“Lord,” he said, “nothing would bless this wedding ceremony more than Your presence. How would You manifest Yourself?”
Then he picked up a pencil.
For the next hour, words came. Not slowly. Not with struggle. They arrived as though they had been waiting. Stookey later said he did not feel like he was composing. He felt like he was transcribing. The pencil moved across the page and all he had to do was allow it.
The first words he wrote were: “I am now to be among you at the calling of your hearts.”
Just one hour before the ceremony, he sang it for his wife Betty. She loved it, but she caught something. “They won’t understand ‘I am now to be among you,’” she told him. “They’re going to think you’re presuming to be God.”
Stookey thought about it. She was right. He changed one word.
“He is now to be among you at the calling of your hearts. Rest assured this troubadour is acting on His part.”
On the evening of October 18, 1969, at Saint Mary’s Catholic Church in Willmar, Minnesota, Paul Stookey stood before the congregation as Peter Yarrow’s best man. He held his guitar and sang the song for the first time.
It was meant to be a private gift. A blessing between friends. He assumed it would never be sung again.
Several weeks later, backstage before a Peter, Paul and Mary concert, Peter leaned over and made a request. His wife was in the audience. Would Paul sing the song for her?
Paul stepped to the microphone and played. The audience went still. There was something in that simple melody — unhurried, vulnerable, honest — that reached people in a way no one had expected.
He kept singing it. And people kept asking.
When the trio took a leave of absence from performing in 1970, Stookey recorded the song for his debut solo album, Paul And…. The single, “Wedding Song (There Is Love),” was released in 1971. It entered the Billboard Hot 100 and climbed to number 24. On the Easy Listening chart, it reached number 3.
But here is where the story becomes extraordinary.
Paul Stookey refused to claim the song as his own.
He had a dilemma. He believed the song had been given to him, not created by him. If he copyrighted it under his name, he would profit from something he felt was never his. But if he claimed nothing, the record company would simply keep the royalties.
So he found a third path. He established the Public Domain Foundation, a charitable trust to receive every royalty the song would ever generate as a composition. He kept none of the songwriting income.
The record company called him with exciting news — The Tonight Show wanted him to perform “Wedding Song” on national television. They told him it could launch a solo career.
“No, thanks,” Stookey said.
Over the decades, the Public Domain Foundation has distributed more than two million dollars to charitable organizations across the United States — soup kitchens, children’s programs, hospitals, music education, and causes Stookey will never see the results of. That two-million-dollar figure was reported in the 1990s. The total has only grown since.
“Wedding Song (There Is Love)” has been covered by Petula Clark, Captain and Tennille, Mary MacGregor, Nana Mouskouri, and many others. It has been performed at countless weddings across America and around the world for more than fifty years. Acoustic guitarists learn it. Brides request it. It has become, for many families, the song that means the beginning.
And Paul Stookey has never taken a cent of the songwriting royalties.
Every year, he turns down requests to perform the song at weddings around the country. His answer is always the same.
“It’s not my song,” he says. “It belongs to every bride and groom who ever had a good friend strum a guitar and sing at their wedding. God gave me a song. It was mine to give away.”
When asked how he explains the song’s origin, Stookey keeps it simple.
“Into every songwriter’s life comes a song, the source of which cannot be explained by personal experience.”
He wrote it in one hour in a basement in Connecticut. He sang it once for two people he loved. He gave away everything it ever earned.
And more than fifty years later, that hour of work is still blessing strangers on the most important day of their lives.
Some songs are written.
Some songs are given.
The difference is what you do with them after.

Elon Musk On Learning

Elon Musk On Learning

Elon Musk just put the entire university system on trial.

Not the curriculum. Not the professors. The premise.

Musk: “You don’t need college to learn stuff. Everything is available basically for free. You can learn anything you want for free.”

For a thousand years, universities held one monopoly. Access. You paid the toll or you stayed ignorant.

The internet erased that in a decade.

Every lecture. Every framework. Every textbook. Free. From any screen on Earth.

The six-figure tuition is no longer buying knowledge. It is buying a signal.

Musk: “There is a value that colleges have, which is seeing whether somebody can work hard at something, including a bunch of annoying homework assignments, and still do their homework assignments.”

That is the product. Not intelligence. Not creativity. Not vision. Compliance.

You are paying $200,000 to prove you can tolerate bureaucracy on a schedule.

Musk: “Colleges are basically for fun and to prove you can do your chores. But they’re not for learning.”

The entire system is a sorting machine for corporate HR. It does not measure what you can build. It measures whether you can sit still, follow directions, and deliver on command.

Four years of obedience dressed as education.

Musk: “If you’re trying to do something exceptional, you must have evidence of exceptional ability. I don’t consider going to college evidence of exceptional ability.”

The system optimizes for average. It rewards the compliant. It certifies the patient. It quietly filters out everyone who refuses to wait for permission.

The ones who reshaped the modern world never finished the test.

Musk: “Gates is a pretty smart guy, he dropped out. Jobs is pretty smart, he dropped out. Larry Ellison, smart guy, he dropped out.”

They did not drop out because it was too hard. They dropped out because the speed limit was too low.

The most dangerous thing a university does is convince a generational talent that finishing the syllabus is the achievement.

It is not. It is the floor.

A degree is a receipt for compliance. The future has never belonged to people who finish their homework. It belongs to the ones who never needed the assignment.

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How To Treat People

“If you want someone to develop a specific trait, treat them as though they already had it.” ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Wisdom From A Fiction Writer

J K Rowling

“The Potter books in general are a prolonged argument for tolerance, a prolonged plea for an end to bigotry. And I think it’s one of the reasons that some people don’t like the books, but I think that’s it’s a very healthy message to pass on to younger people that you should question authority and you should not assume that the establishment or the press tells you all of the truth.” – J K Rowling

What Humanity Looks Like- From Both Sides Of The Mike

Freddy Mercury On Stage

Freddie Mercury FROZE on stage for 7 minutes at Wembley — 72,000 fans did something INCREDIBLE.

Freddy Mercury froze on stage for seven minutes at Wembley. 72,000 fans did something incredible. Freddy Mercury was in the middle of Bohemian Raphsody when something happened that had never occurred in Queen’s entire career. He stopped singing completely. For seven full minutes, the most electrifying frontman in rock history stood frozen at center stage while 72,000 while people held their breath.

What happened next would become the most beautiful moment in Wembley Stadium’s history. July 12th, 1986. Wembley Stadium, London. 8:47 p.m. The air was electric. 72,000 voices had been screaming for two solid hours as Queen tore through their greatest hits. The stage lights painted everything in gold and crimson.

Freddy Mercury owned that stage the way few performers ever have. He strutted. He commanded. He made 72,000 people feel like he was singing directly to each one of them.

The band launched into Bohemian Raphsody. The crowd went absolutely wild. But in the third row, section A14, something else was happening. Something that would change everything. Sarah Mitchell, 19 years old, sat clutching a photograph.

Her hands were shaking so badly she could barely hold it. The girl in the picture was her twin sister, Emma. They’d bought these tickets together 9 months ago. They’d saved for 6 months, working double shifts at the chip shop in Manchester. They’d planned every detail of this trip. Emma would never see this show. 3 weeks earlier, Emma had died in a car accident on the M6.

Sarah had spent those weeks in a fog of grief so thick she could barely breathe. Her parents had begged her not to come tonight. It’s too soon. Her mother said you’re not ready. But Sarah came anyway because Emma would have wanted her to because this was supposed to be their night because she needed to feel close to her sister one more time.

She’d been holding it together barely. The music helped. Freddy’s energy helped. For two hours, she’d almost felt normal again. Then came Bohemian Raphsody, the song Emma had played on repeat since they were 14. The song they’d sung together a thousand times in their tiny shared bedroom. The song Emma had been humming the morning of the accident.

The piano intro started. Freddy’s voice filled the stadium. “Is this the real life? Is it just fantasy?” Sarah broke. Not quietly, not gracefully. She stood up and screamed Emma’s name. Once, twice, three times. A raw animal sound of pure grief that somehow cut through 72,000 voices. People around her turned.

Some looked annoyed, some looked concerned. A security guard started moving toward her. But on stage, Freddy heard something. He was halfway through the second verse when he stopped singing. just stopped midword. Brian May’s guitar continued for a few bars before he noticed. Roger Taylor’s drums faltered.

John Deacon looked up, confused. Freddy stood completely still, one hand on the microphone stand. His eyes were scanning the crowd. The music stopped. 72,000 people fell silent. You could hear the wind moving through the stadium. You could hear Sarah Mitchell crying in row three. Freddy shielded his eyes against the stage lights, looking out into the crowd.

“Someone’s hurting,” he said softly into the microphone. His voice was nothing like his stage voice. It was gentle, concerned, human. The silence was absolute. “I can feel it,” Freddy continued. He wasn’t performing now. He was just talking. “Someone out there is carrying something very heavy tonight. Someone’s heart is breaking.”

Sarah felt like the entire stadium was staring at her. She wanted to disappear. She wanted to run, but her legs wouldn’t move. Freddy waited. The stadium waited. Then something extraordinary happened. A woman in section C five rows back stood up. She was crying too. She didn’t say anything.

She just stood there with tears streaming down her face. 5 seconds passed. A man in section G stood up. Then another woman in section F. Then two teenagers in the upper deck. Then a dozen more. Then a hundred. Within two minutes, thousands of people were standing, not cheering, not shouting, just standing in solidarity with whatever pain was filling that stadium.

Sarah looked around in shock. All these strangers, all these people who didn’t know her or Emma or what she was going through, they were standing with her. Freddy watched this happen with tears in his eyes. He nodded slowly as if understanding something profound. “Music, he said quietly into the microphone, is supposed to bring us together, not just when we’re happy, especially when we’re not.”

He looked at his bandmates. “Let’s do something we’ve never done before.” Brian raised his eyebrows. What are you thinking? Freddy smiled. “Trust me.” He stepped to the edge of the stage and sat down right there on the floor of the Wembley stage, legs dangling over the edge. He sat like he was on someone’s front porch.

“I want to sing this song again,” he said, “but differently. I want to sing it for everyone who’s lost someone. Everyone who’s hurting. Everyone who came here tonight carrying something heavy.” He paused. “And I don’t want to sing it alone. The stadium held its collective breath. I want all of you to sing with me.”

Not performance, not concert, just together. Like we’re all in someone’s living room remembering the people we love. Brian picked up his acoustic guitar. Roger grabbed a simple hand drum. John nodded. Freddy began singing. “Is this the real life?” But his voice was different. Stripped down, vulnerable. No theatrics, no performance, just Freddy Mercury sitting on a stage singing about life and death and meaning.

And 72,000 people sang with him. Not shouting, not screaming, singing, really singing every word, every note. Sarah Mitchell sang through her tears. She sang for Emma. She sang with Emma. For seven minutes, that entire stadium became a cathedral of shared grief and shared love. When they reached, “Nothing really matters to me.” Freddy’s voice cracked.

He stopped trying to hide that he was crying. The song ended. The last note hung in the air for what felt like forever. Freddy stood up slowly. He looked out at those 72,000 faces. “Thank you,” he said. “Thank you for showing me what humanity looks like.” The concert continued. Queen played for another hour, but everyone knew they’d just witnessed something that transcended performance.

After the show, Freddy did something else unusual. He asked his security team to find the girl who’d been crying in row three. It took them 40 minutes, but they found Sarah as she was leaving the stadium. They brought her backstage. Freddy was sitting on a road case, still wearing his stage clothes, makeup running down his face from sweat and tears.

The backstage area was chaos, crew members rushing back and forth, equipment being packed. But in that small corner, there was stillness. When he saw Sarah, he stood up immediately. Not like a rock star greeting a fan. Like a human being greeting another human being who was hurting.

“I’m Freddy,” he said as if she might not know. Sarah tried to speak, but the words caught in her throat. She was still clutching the photograph of Emma. Still wearing the Queen t-shirt they’d bought together. Still trying to breathe through the weight of everything. Sarah, she finally managed. Freddy gestured to the road case. “please sit with me.”

They sat side by side. Two people who’d never met, connected by something neither of them could name. “Tell me about them,” he said gently, “the person you were singing for.”

Sarah looked down at the photograph. Emma’s face smiled back at her. 19 years old. Forever 19. “Her name was Emma,” Sarah began, and her voice broke on the name.

Daniel Keith Ludwig

Daniel Keith Ludwig

In 1982, Forbes magazine published its very first list of the 400 wealthiest Americans.

At the top of that list sat a name that most of the country had never heard.

Daniel Keith Ludwig.

Net worth: approximately $2 billion. Age: 85. Public profile: essentially zero. In an era when wealthy Americans were beginning to cultivate media presence and personal brands, Ludwig had spent six decades doing the precise opposite — building one of the largest private fortunes in American history while remaining so deliberately invisible that even many of his business partners had never met him face to face.

He was not hiding from anything specific. Secrecy was simply his operating philosophy. And it had worked extraordinarily well.

Ludwig grew up in South Haven, Michigan, the son of a real estate broker. He had almost no formal education beyond high school — he dropped out early and went to work. At the age of nine, he had already bought a small boat and begun charging for rides. By his mid-twenties he owned his first ship. By his thirties he had identified the single insight that would make him one of the most consequential figures in the history of global commerce.

The insight was this: if you could guarantee future cargo, you could finance ships before they were built.

It sounds simple stated plainly. It was revolutionary in practice. Banks would not traditionally lend against ships that didn’t exist. Ludwig figured out how to pre-sell the carrying capacity of vessels still on the drawing board to major oil companies — then used those contracts as collateral to finance construction. He effectively invented a new model of asset financing, and he used it to build a fleet of supertankers at a time when supertankers were reshaping how oil moved around the planet.

He built his own shipyards in Japan when American yards couldn’t build ships fast enough or cheaply enough for his ambitions. He became one of the primary architects of the modern supertanker industry — the vessels that made it economically possible to move crude oil from the Middle East to refineries across the world at the scale the post-war economy required.

He did all of this while maintaining a workforce that numbered in the tens of thousands without ever giving a single major press interview.

But Ludwig’s ambitions extended beyond the ocean.

In the 1960s and 1970s, he turned his attention to something that made his shipping empire look modest by comparison: the Amazon rainforest. He purchased an area of jungle in northern Brazil the size of Connecticut — approximately 1.6 million acres — and set out to build a fully integrated industrial ecosystem from nothing. A pulp mill. A kaolin mining operation. Rice paddies. Roads. A company town. He shipped an entire pulp mill — pre-built in Japan — up the Amazon River on barges to install it on-site.

The Jari Project was one of the most audacious private development undertakings of the 20th century. It was also, ultimately, one of the most expensive failures. The jungle resisted industrialization with a thoroughness that even Ludwig’s resources could not overcome. Soils that seemed fertile proved fragile. Exotic tree species imported for fast-growth pulpwood failed to thrive. The infrastructure costs were staggering. By the early 1980s, Ludwig had absorbed losses approaching $1 billion — an almost incomprehensible sum for a single private venture — and sold the project to a Brazilian consortium.

He barely discussed it publicly. He absorbed the loss and moved on.

Because for Ludwig, money had long since stopped being the point.

In 1971 — two decades before his death — Ludwig founded the Ludwig Institute for Cancer Research, endowing it with the resources to become one of the largest private cancer research organizations in the world. He structured his estate so that the vast majority of his fortune would flow into cancer research and related medical science upon his death. When he died on August 27, 1992 at the age of 95, that is precisely what happened.

The Ludwig Institute for Cancer Research today operates across multiple countries, has contributed to fundamental discoveries in cancer biology, and has helped develop cancer therapies that have reached patients worldwide. It is, by almost any measure, one of the most substantial private contributions to medical science in the 20th century — funded by a man who made his money moving oil across oceans in ships he built using financing models he invented from scratch with no formal education.

He never sought credit. He never gave speeches about his philanthropy. He gave no interviews about his legacy.

He simply built it — the fortune, the ships, the empire, the institution — and then directed it toward something he believed mattered more than his own name.

Daniel Keith Ludwig was the richest man in America in 1982.

Most people reading this have never heard of him.

He would have considered that a success.

Quote of the Day

Start by doing what is necessary, then do what’s possible, and suddenly you’re doing the impossible. – Saint Francis of Assisi