{"id":7505,"date":"2013-09-11T20:49:29","date_gmt":"2013-09-11T10:49:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=7505"},"modified":"2013-09-11T20:49:29","modified_gmt":"2013-09-11T10:49:29","slug":"if-i-had-my-child-to-raise-over-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=7505","title":{"rendered":"If I had my child to raise over again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If I had my child to raise over again,<br \/>\nI&#8217;d finger paint more, and point the finger less.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d do less correcting, and more connecting.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.<br \/>\nI would care to know less, and know to care more.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d take more hikes and fly more kites.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d stop playing serious, and seriously play.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d run through more fields, and gaze at more stars.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d do more hugging, and less tugging.<br \/>\nI would be firm less often, and affirm much more.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d build self-esteem first, and the house later.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d teach less about the love of power,<br \/>\nAnd more about the power of love.<br \/>\nIt matters not whether my child is big or small,<br \/>\nFrom this day forth, I&#8217;ll cherish it all.<br \/>\nDiane Loomans<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I had my child to raise over again, I&#8217;d finger paint more, and point the finger less. I&#8217;d do less correcting, and more connecting. I&#8217;d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I would care to know less, and know to care more. I&#8217;d take more hikes and fly more &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=7505\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;If I had my child to raise over again&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7505","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7505","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7505"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7505\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7505"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7505"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}