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1998. Los Angeles. Mark Ruffalo was 30 years old and living in a converted garage.<\/p>\n
He\u2019d moved to Los Angeles years earlier with dreams of becoming an actor. He\u2019d founded the Orpheus Theatre Company with friends. He\u2019d auditioned for nearly 800 roles.<\/p>\n
And he\u2019d been rejected for almost all of them.<\/p>\n
Mark had no money. No driver\u2019s license. No credit card. He was living in what he later described as \u201ca dump\u201c with artist friends, barely scraping by.<\/p>\n
Most people in Hollywood would have looked at Mark Ruffalo and seen failure.<\/p>\n
Sunrise Coigney saw something different.<\/p>\n
She was 26 years old. A model and budding actress from New Orleans who\u2019d moved to Los Angeles to pursue her own career. She wasn\u2019t famous. She wasn\u2019t wealthy. But she wasn\u2019t broke and living in a garage either.<\/p>\n
When Mark saw her walking down the street, he was with a friend\u2014a friend who was also interested in her.<\/p>\n
\u201cI saw her and was like, \u2019I\u2019m going to marry that girl,\u2019\u201d Mark later told Men\u2019s Journal.<\/p>\n
He approached Sunrise. They talked. Something clicked.<\/p>\n
But Sunrise wasn\u2019t immediately convinced.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was living in a dump and didn\u2019t even have a driver\u2019s license or a credit card\u201d Mark admitted years later. \u201cShe thought I was a mess\u201d<\/p>\n
But she also saw something in him that nobody else had seen.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe believed in me and kept encouraging me\u201c Mark said.<\/p>\n
Sunrise told him: \u201cI know you\u2019re a really good actor\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark laughed. \u201cYou haven\u2019t really seen me act yet\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI just know it\u201d Sunrise said. \u201cI can tell\u201d<\/p>\n
That belief\u2014that unwavering conviction in Mark\u2019s talent when he had nothing to show for it\u2014became the foundation of their relationship.<\/p>\n
They started dating. Mark fell deeper in love. And sometime around 1999 or 2000, he proposed.<\/p>\n
Sunrise said no.<\/p>\n
She wasn\u2019t ready. The timing wasn\u2019t right. Whatever the reason, she turned him down.<\/p>\n
Most men would have walked away. Moved on. Found someone else.<\/p>\n
Mark didn\u2019t retreat. He regrouped. And he asked again.<\/p>\n
This time, Sunrise said yes.<\/p>\n
On June 11, 2000, Mark Ruffalo and Sunrise Coigney got married.<\/p>\n
And that same year, everything changed.<\/p>\n
Mark landed a role in Kenneth Lonergan\u2019s indie drama You Can Count on Me opposite Laura Linney. The film premiered at the Sundance Film Festival in January 2000 to rave reviews.<\/p>\n
Mark\u2019s performance as Terry Prescott\u2014a troubled, charismatic drifter\u2014earned him critical acclaim. Suddenly, Hollywood was paying attention.<\/p>\n
After nearly 1,000 auditions and a decade of rejection, Mark Ruffalo\u2019s career was finally taking off.<\/p>\n
But just as his professional life was ascending, his personal life was about to be tested in the most terrifying way possible.<\/p>\n
In 2001, Sunrise became pregnant with their first child. Mark was thrilled.<\/p>\n
Then he started experiencing strange symptoms. Ringing in his ear. Dizziness. Something wasn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n
Mark went to the doctor. They ran tests. And the diagnosis came back: a brain tumor.<\/p>\n
Mark was weeks away from becoming a father. His wife was pregnant. His career was finally gaining momentum.<\/p>\n
And now he had a tumor in his brain.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was so sure I was going to die\u201d Mark said years later, \u201cthat I recorded a video for my son so he could know who his dad was\u201d<\/p>\n
But Mark didn\u2019t tell Sunrise about the diagnosis immediately. He didn\u2019t want to stress her out while she was pregnant.<\/p>\n
He kept the secret. Carried the fear alone. Until he couldn\u2019t anymore.<\/p>\n
When he finally told her, Sunrise didn\u2019t fall apart. She didn\u2019t panic.<\/p>\n
She did what she\u2019d always done: she believed in him.<\/p>\n
Mark underwent surgery to remove the tumor. It was benign, but the procedure left him partially deaf in one ear and temporarily paralyzed on one side of his face.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt was the worst experience of my life\u201d Mark said.<\/p>\n
But he survived.<\/p>\n
In June 2001, their son Keen was born.<\/p>\n
Mark\u2019s career continued to grow. He starred in 13 Going on 30 (2004) with Jennifer Garner. Then Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004). Zodiac (2007). Shutter Island (2010).<\/p>\n
In 2005, Sunrise gave birth to their daughter Bella Noche. In 2007, their second daughter Odette was born.<\/p>\n
By 2010, Mark had been nominated for an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor for his role in The Kids Are All Right\u2014a role he got because Sunrise was friends with Julianne Moore and had texted her about the project.<\/p>\n
\u201cBehind every good man, there is a good woman\u201c Sunrise later said. \u201cFor Mark Ruffalo, that woman is his wife Sunrise\u201d<\/p>\n
But in 2008, tragedy struck again.<\/p>\n
Mark\u2019s younger brother, Scott Ruffalo\u2014a popular hairstylist in Beverly Hills\u2014was shot in the head in his apartment. He died a week later.<\/p>\n
The murder was devastating. The investigation inconclusive. To this day, no one has been charged.<\/p>\n
Mark was shattered. Sunrise and the children were his anchor.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know if I would have made it without her\u201d Mark told Closer Weekly in 2014.<\/p>\n
Mark and Sunrise made a decision: they needed to leave Hollywood.<\/p>\n
They moved their family to upstate New York\u2014to the Catskills, where they\u2019d been spending summers. Away from the paparazzi. Away from the red carpets. Away from the reminders of everything they\u2019d lost.<\/p>\n
\u201cSunny and I were looking at each other like, \u2019It\u2019s good to get to know you again,\u2019\u201d Mark said about the move.<\/p>\n
In 2012, Mark was cast as Bruce Banner\/The Hulk in The Avengers. The role made him a global superstar.<\/p>\n
But Mark Ruffalo never forgot where he came from.<\/p>\n
He never forgot the converted garage. The 800+ auditions. The years of rejection.<\/p>\n
And he never forgot the woman who saw something in him when he had nothing.<\/p>\n
In February 2024, Mark Ruffalo received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.<\/p>\n
Sunrise, Bella, and Keen attended the ceremony.<\/p>\n
Mark dedicated the star to his wife.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe believed in me when I was a broke actor living in a garage\u201d Mark said. \u201cShe\u2019s been there through brain surgery, through losing my brother, through everything\u201d<\/p>\n
On June 11, 2025, Mark and Sunrise celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary.<\/p>\n
Mark posted a tribute on social media: photos of them over the years, the caption filled with gratitude and love.<\/p>\n
They have three children. A life split between Los Angeles and upstate New York.<\/p>\n
But what they really have is proof that Hollywood\u2019s fairy tales sometimes happen to real people.<\/p>\n
Mark Ruffalo went to nearly 1,000 auditions before his big break.<\/p>\n
He was living in a garage with no driver\u2019s license and no credit card when he met Sunrise Coigney on a Los Angeles street in 1998.<\/p>\n
She thought he was a mess. But she believed in him anyway.<\/p>\n
She said no to his first proposal. Then yes to the second.<\/p>\n
She stood by him through brain surgery, the murder of his brother, and the chaos of sudden fame.<\/p>\n
And 27 years later, they\u2019re still together.<\/p>\n
Because sometimes love isn\u2019t about finding someone when you\u2019re successful.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about finding someone who sees your success before anyone else does\u2014including yourself.<\/p>\n
Mark Ruffalo is now the Hulk. An Oscar-nominated actor. A Hollywood A-lister.<\/p>\n
But in 1998, he was just a broke guy in a garage who saw a woman on a Los Angeles street and thought: \u201cI\u2019m going to marry that girl.\u201d<\/p>\n
And somehow, impossibly, he did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
1998. Los Angeles. Mark Ruffalo was 30 years old and living in a converted garage. He\u2019d moved to Los Angeles years earlier with dreams of becoming an actor. He\u2019d founded the Orpheus Theatre Company with friends. He\u2019d auditioned for nearly 800 roles. And he\u2019d been rejected for almost all of them. Mark had no money. … <\/p>\n