{"id":63577,"date":"2026-02-19T20:19:17","date_gmt":"2026-02-19T09:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=63577"},"modified":"2026-02-19T20:19:17","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T09:19:17","slug":"clutter-stresses-women-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=63577","title":{"rendered":"Clutter Stresses Women More"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63578\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Clutter_Stresses_Women_More.png\" alt=\"Clutter Stresses Women More\" width=\"512\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Clutter_Stresses_Women_More.png 512w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Clutter_Stresses_Women_More-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>New research shows clutter dramatically spikes women\u2019s cortisol\u2014while men\u2019s stress barely budges.<\/p>\n<p>Household clutter extends far beyond mere aesthetics\u2014it&#8217;s deeply intertwined with stress physiology and cognitive burden, impacting women in particular.<\/p>\n<p>Drawing from studies on dual-income married couples, therapist Elizabeth Earnshaw explains that women who view their homes as cluttered often see their cortisol levels rise throughout the day, unlike those who feel at ease, whose levels naturally decline. This heightened effect in women stems largely from bearing the disproportionate invisible mental load\u2014the constant cycle of noticing, recalling, planning, and orchestrating household tasks.<\/p>\n<p>Earnshaw suggests a realistic, three-part approach to reducing the stress\u2013clutter spiral.<\/p>\n<p>First, \u201cshedding\u201d involves intentionally minimizing possessions, including doing the emotional work required to let things go, in order to create more mental and physical space.<br \/>\nSecond, \u201cpreventing\u201d focuses on systems: giving items clear \u201chomes\u201d so that decisions about where things go become automatic rather than mentally taxing. This may start with listing common types of clutter and designing dedicated spots for each (for example, a single, consistent place for receipts). Third, \u201cadapting\u201d asks families to accept that some clutter is inevitable in busy seasons of life and to concentrate on emotional regulation and co-regulation with partners, keeping stress and cortisol lower by adjusting expectations rather than striving for a perpetually picture-perfect home.<\/p>\n<p>[Earnshaw, E., &#8220;Clutter, Cortisol, and Mental Load&#8221;. Psychology Today, 2024] [Saxbe, D. E., &amp; Repetti, R. , &#8220;No place like home: Home tours correlate with daily patterns of mood and cortisol&#8221;, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 36(1), 71\u201381, 2010, DOI: 10.1177\/0146167209352864]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>New research shows clutter dramatically spikes women\u2019s cortisol\u2014while men\u2019s stress barely budges. Household clutter extends far beyond mere aesthetics\u2014it&#8217;s deeply intertwined with stress physiology and cognitive burden, impacting women in particular. Drawing from studies on dual-income married couples, therapist Elizabeth Earnshaw explains that women who view their homes as cluttered often see their cortisol levels &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=63577\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Clutter Stresses Women More&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-health-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63577","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=63577"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63577\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":63579,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63577\/revisions\/63579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=63577"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=63577"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=63577"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}