{"id":60463,"date":"2025-07-01T23:05:55","date_gmt":"2025-07-01T13:05:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=60463"},"modified":"2025-07-01T23:05:55","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T13:05:55","slug":"coco-chanel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=60463","title":{"rendered":"Coco Chanel"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Coco<\/p>\n

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\u201cNo one taught me to sew, you know? I learned because I had to. It wasn\u2019t art at first\u2026 it was survival.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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I was born into poverty. My mother died when I was twelve. My father \u2014 a coward \u2014 walked away as if we were nothing.<\/div>\n
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I ended up in a cold, grey orphanage, where the echo of prayers blended with the sound of tearing fabric. The nuns taught me to sew.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u201cTo give you a decent life, Gabrielle,\u201d they said, pointing their bony fingers at my poorly cut fabric.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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But I didn\u2019t want a \u201cdecent\u201d life.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u201cDecent? What does that even mean? To be quiet and clean?\u201d I once asked.<\/div>\n
Sister Bernadette glared at me.<\/div>\n
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\u201cIt means not ending up on the street again,\u201d she snapped.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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But in my head, something else had already caught fire:<\/div>\n
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I didn\u2019t want to survive. I wanted to soar.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Every stitch I made was a declaration: I will become.<\/div>\n
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I sewed in silence \u2014 but inside, I was screaming. No one would decide for me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Years later, when I started selling my first hats, people laughed:<\/div>\n
\u201cA woman with her own shop? How absurd.\u201d<\/div>\n
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\u201cThe daughter of a street vendor thinks she\u2019s a designer? How presumptuous.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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They had no idea who they were talking to.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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One man once said smugly:<\/div>\n
\u201cYou made this? But it\u2019s elegant\u2026 I thought it was from Paris.\u201d<\/div>\n
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\u201cIt is,\u201d I smiled. \u201cBecause I am Paris. You just don\u2019t know it yet.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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With every hat I sold, with every dress I cut without following the rules, I got closer to the woman I dreamed of becoming:<\/div>\n
Free. Elegant. Unapologetic.<\/div>\n
No corsets. No permission. No fear.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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I cut my hair short when every woman wore it long.<\/div>\n
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\u201cYou look like a boy,\u201d a friend said, horrified.<\/div>\n
\u201cNo,\u201d I replied. \u201cI look like me.\u201d<\/div>\n
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And I loved it.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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They called me rebellious, insolent, even vulgar.<\/div>\n
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But they never called me obedient.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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I saw wars tear everything apart. I saw my stores shut down during the occupation.<\/div>\n
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I heard them say:<\/div>\n
\u201cChanel is finished. Her time is over.\u201d<\/div>\n
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But they didn\u2019t know me.<\/div>\n
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I returned to Paris when everyone thought I was history \u2014 and proved I still had chapters to write.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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I wasn\u2019t just a brand. I was a statement.<\/div>\n
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A war cry against conformity.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Chanel N\u00ba 5?<\/div>\n
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Yes, they say it\u2019s the most famous perfume in the world.<\/div>\n
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But my real fragrance? It smelled like defiance.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u201cWhat does courage smell like?\u201d a young designer once asked me.<\/div>\n
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\u201cLike not giving up,\u201d I said.<\/div>\n
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\u201cLike perfume with scars.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And if I could tell that little girl crying on her orphanage bed one thing, it would be this:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u00a0\u201cDon\u2019t let the mud you were born in stop you from blooming. The strongest flowers grow from ruins.\u201d \u2014 Coco Chanel<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo one taught me to sew, you know? I learned because I had to. It wasn\u2019t art at first\u2026 it was survival.\u201d I was born into poverty. My mother died when I was twelve. My father \u2014 a coward \u2014 walked away as if we were nothing. I ended up in a cold, grey orphanage, … <\/p>\n

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