{"id":59721,"date":"2025-05-13T12:12:04","date_gmt":"2025-05-13T02:12:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=59721"},"modified":"2025-05-13T12:12:04","modified_gmt":"2025-05-13T02:12:04","slug":"a-shared-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=59721","title":{"rendered":"A shared story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-59722\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/The_House_With_Nobdy_In_It.jpg\" alt=\"The House With Nobody In It\" width=\"833\" height=\"1041\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/The_House_With_Nobdy_In_It.jpg 512w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/The_House_With_Nobdy_In_It-240x300.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Two Saturday nights a month, I work in Cullman County at a dirt racing track. Tonight as I arrived at the track, I noticed I was the only person there. Tonight&#8217;s race had been postponed, and I wouldn&#8217;t be playing my role on the mic as the &#8220;Voice of River Valley Speedway.&#8221; It appeared that I had made a burnt run.<\/p>\n<p>On my way home, I stopped by an old house that I&#8217;d passed many times before. Fallen walls, a rotting porch, and broken windows told me that the house had been lifeless for at least fifty years. I had to have a picture. I just had to.<\/p>\n<p>I walked next door to a brick house, much younger&#8211; and knocked on the door. I introduced myself, and asked permission to photograph the old house next door.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll do you one better. Would you like a history lesson?&#8221; I nodded yes, and not quite knowing what to expect I followed the woman inside.<\/p>\n<p>I was introduced to her parents, an elderly couple perhaps in their nineties. I shook hands and was told to sit down in a recliner near the television showing the baseball game I had unintentionally interrupted. Mr. Pate muted the game, while his wife continued on with putting her puzzle together.<br \/>\n&#8220;That house was built by my grandfather in 1901 or so. Over 100 years old.&#8221; For the better part of the next hour, this couple shared stories of growing up in log cabins, hard country life, and coming to know Christ. I was shown pictures of rural Cullman County from the late 1800&#8217;s, and the last will and testament of the last man ever hanged in Cullman&#8211; for a crime he didn&#8217;t commit. I listened attentively as they poured years of history into someone they&#8217;d never met before.<\/p>\n<p>As I stood up to say goodbye, my new friends tried to discourage me from leaving. &#8220;Preacher, don&#8217;t go. Why don&#8217;t you stay over for dinner?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As inviting as it sounded, the disappearing sunlight told me that I needed to take my pictures and schedule a rain check. We shook hands again, and I was on my way towards the older house, with two mutts following me with curiosity.<\/p>\n<p>As I took a few shots, suddenly I was in the house. I stopped taking pictures as the thoughts of children ran across the porch, playing tag as they ran barefoot. I saw a woman in the corner, sewing clothes to wear to church. A man was outside chopping wood for the stove, and I could see the mules tied to a plow near the dirt road where my car would be parked 100 years later. It was a different world: slower, simpler, and with more integrity. No technology, no electricity, and no water demanded a slower life at this house.<\/p>\n<p>My odometer showed that I went fifty miles tonight&#8211; but I traveled much, much farther.<br \/>\nOn my way to the racetrack I was anticipating a night of speed, but instead I understood the importance of slowing down.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes in life we&#8217;re too fast. We&#8217;ve gone too far and haven&#8217;t appreciated the journey. Turn the phone off for a bit. Unplug the television for a while. Log off the net for a few hours.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s all slow down just a bit. Enjoy the ride we&#8217;re on.<\/p>\n<p>Pretty soon it&#8217;ll just be a memory&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two Saturday nights a month, I work in Cullman County at a dirt racing track. Tonight as I arrived at the track, I noticed I was the only person there. Tonight&#8217;s race had been postponed, and I wouldn&#8217;t be playing my role on the mic as the &#8220;Voice of River Valley Speedway.&#8221; It appeared that &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=59721\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A shared story&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-health-tips","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=59721"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59721\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":59723,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59721\/revisions\/59723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=59721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=59721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=59721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}