{"id":47164,"date":"2023-11-05T15:49:40","date_gmt":"2023-11-05T04:49:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=47164"},"modified":"2023-11-05T15:49:40","modified_gmt":"2023-11-05T04:49:40","slug":"the-sunflower","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=47164","title":{"rendered":"The Sunflower"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-47165\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/The_Sunflower-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"The Sunflower\" width=\"946\" height=\"1183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/The_Sunflower-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/The_Sunflower.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cLast night I bought a sunflower to put on the windshield of someone I\u2019m smitten with.<\/p>\n<p>After some consideration, I decided not to since we had only been on one date, the night previous. Don\u2019t want to come off too strong, right?<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I grabbed the flower on my way out this morning with the intention to give it to someone on my way to work so it didn\u2019t die alone.<\/p>\n<p>What happened next has left me changed in ways I don\u2019t even have words for yet.<\/p>\n<p>While I was sitting and drinking my morning joe at the coffee shop (which I typically take to go), I saw a woman reading something with tears quietly and quickly sliding down her pale face.<\/p>\n<p>It was like there was a magnet in the sunflower that was being drawn to her, because I knew in that moment she was who I was going to give the sunflower to; she was who I had to give it to.<\/p>\n<p>When I got to her table I said, &#8220;Hey, pardon me. I have this sunflower that I was hoping to give to someone special and that someone I had in mind didn\u2019t work out, but I can feel that you\u2019re special too, so I want you to have it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Before I could even hand her the sunflower, this complete stranger flew into my arms with tears flowing, and gratitude spewing, as if I was someone she once loved, and lost.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s what she said next that I\u2019m still trying to grip.<\/p>\n<p>She was crying because her fianc\u00e9 had died the week before, just months before they were going to get married.<\/p>\n<p>On their first date, he brought her a sunflower and from then on, got her sunflowers, never roses, because she was the light of his life.<\/p>\n<p>Today, through me, he was able to show her that she\u2019ll always be the light of his life and how we as humans have a message to carry that goes far beyond words.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m shaken, awakened, and feeling raw.<\/p>\n<p>You never know how much a simple gesture of giving someone a $5 flower will change their life, as well as yours. Life is about giving and being of service to others.<\/p>\n<p>I challenge you all to find a way to make someone else\u2019s life just a little bit brighter today and be of service. You never know the impact you could have.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Credit: Danny Wakefield<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cLast night I bought a sunflower to put on the windshield of someone I\u2019m smitten with. After some consideration, I decided not to since we had only been on one date, the night previous. Don\u2019t want to come off too strong, right? Anyway, I grabbed the flower on my way out this morning with the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=47164\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Sunflower&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=47164"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47166,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47164\/revisions\/47166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=47164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=47164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=47164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}