{"id":44884,"date":"2023-05-12T10:52:43","date_gmt":"2023-05-12T00:52:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=44884"},"modified":"2023-05-12T11:04:02","modified_gmt":"2023-05-12T01:04:02","slug":"i-walked-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=44884","title":{"rendered":"I Walked Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-44885\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/I_Walked_Away-296x300.jpg\" alt=\"I Walked Away\" width=\"878\" height=\"890\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/I_Walked_Away-296x300.jpg 296w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/I_Walked_Away-768x779.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/I_Walked_Away-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/I_Walked_Away.jpg 843w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I once walked into a room where a couple of my friends were talking about me and they didn\u2019t know I was there. I shook my head, smiled and walked away.<\/p>\n<p>I once had a bestfriend who talked bad about me, and never knew that I found out, I never mentioned it. I just smiled and walked away from that friendship.<\/p>\n<p>I had a couple family members who chose to shift me out of their life because I stood up for myself for a change. And because I stopped crossing oceans for them when they would not even jump over a puddle for me, I smiled, shook my head and walked away.<\/p>\n<p>I was in a relationship once where I was always put last no matter what I did for them and I realized at that very moment, someones effort is their direct reflection of their interest in you.<\/p>\n<p>So, I walked away and never looked back.<\/p>\n<p>Someone asked me how I could just walk away from people that betrayed me while pretending to be my significant other, friends or family.<\/p>\n<p>I said that every time I came to a crossroad like that, I had to decide who will be going forward on my journey with me. This showed me who I cannot take along with me.<\/p>\n<p>You should never get mad at a person who betrays you, even in the name of friendship or family.<\/p>\n<p>Just gracefully bow out and enjoy your journey and remember, the moment you start to wonder if you deserve better, you do.<\/p>\n<p>~ Cody Bret<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I once walked into a room where a couple of my friends were talking about me and they didn\u2019t know I was there. I shook my head, smiled and walked away. I once had a bestfriend who talked bad about me, and never knew that I found out, I never mentioned it. I just smiled &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=44884\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I Walked Away&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-health-tips","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=44884"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44884\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":44888,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44884\/revisions\/44888"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=44884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=44884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=44884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}