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Some time ago I listened to a fascinating lecture on resisting. What I got from it is that when you resist something you put up a barrier (spiritual, mental, energy or mass) between you and that which you are resisting.<\/p>\n
That which you are resisting flows particles at you. Those particles hit the barrier you have created. Particles building up on one side of the barrier create a vacuum on the opposite side of the barrier.<\/p>\n
When you resist and fail you get sucked into the vacuum and become that which you were resisting.<\/p>\n
That is one mechanism of how people “flip” from good to bad. They become that which they fought.<\/p>\n
So the key is to not resist that which you do not want but to flow energy towards that which you DO want.<\/p>\n
Which is why the most aware people will always conclude a presentation by giving you things you CAN do towards creating a more desirable future outcome.<\/p>\n
Buckminster Fuller summarised it so well when he said: “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Some time ago I listened to a fascinating lecture on resisting. What I got from it is that when you resist something you put up a barrier (spiritual, mental, energy or mass) between you and that which you are resisting. That which you are resisting flows particles at you. Those particles hit the barrier you … <\/p>\n