{"id":43757,"date":"2023-03-09T18:32:27","date_gmt":"2023-03-09T07:32:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=43757"},"modified":"2023-03-09T18:32:27","modified_gmt":"2023-03-09T07:32:27","slug":"when-you-thought-i-wasnt-looking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=43757","title":{"rendered":"When You Thought I Wasn&#8217;t Looking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-43758\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Child_With_Arms_Folded-251x300.jpg\" alt=\"Child With Arms Folded\" width=\"895\" height=\"1070\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Child_With_Arms_Folded-251x300.jpg 251w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Child_With_Arms_Folded.jpg 419w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you make my favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little things can be the special things in life.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I heard you say a prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn&#8217;t feel good, and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw tears come from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it&#8217;s all right to cry.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw that you cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be..<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I learned most of life&#8217;s lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.<\/p>\n<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I looked at you and wanted to say,\u2019 Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>I AM SENDING THIS TO ALL OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW WHO DO SO MUCH FOR OTHERS, BUT THINK THAT NO ONE EVER SEES. LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend) influences the life of a child&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you thought I wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one. When you thought wasn&#8217;t looking I saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals. 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