{"id":43259,"date":"2023-02-01T10:48:46","date_gmt":"2023-01-31T23:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=43259"},"modified":"2023-02-01T10:48:46","modified_gmt":"2023-01-31T23:48:46","slug":"finding-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=43259","title":{"rendered":"Finding Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-43260\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joy_and_Inspiration-198x300.jpg\" alt=\"Joy and Inspiration\" width=\"852\" height=\"1291\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A beautiful woman in an expensive dress came to see me saying that she was depressed and her life was meaningless.<\/p>\n<p>I called the old lady who cleaned the office floors and then said to the rich lady, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to ask Mary here to tell you how she found happiness. All I want you to do is listen to her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So the old lady put down her broom, sat on a chair and told her story.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My husband died of cancer. 3 months later my only son was killed by a car. I had nobody. I had nothing left. I couldn\u2019t sleep, I couldn&#8217;t eat, I never smiled at anyone. I even thought of taking my own life.<\/p>\n<p>Then one evening, a little kitten followed me home from work. Somehow I felt sorry for that kitten. It was cold outside, so I decided to let the kitten in. I got it some milk, and the kitten licked the plate clean.<\/p>\n<p>Then it rubbed against my leg and, for the first time in months, I smiled.<\/p>\n<p>Then I stopped to think: if helping a little kitten could make me smile, may be doing something for people could make me happy.<\/p>\n<p>So the next day I baked some biscuits and took them to a neighbour who was sick in bed.<\/p>\n<p>Every day I tried to do something nice for someone. It made me so happy to see them happy.<\/p>\n<p>Today I don&#8217;t know of anybody, who sleeps better than I do. I have found happiness by giving it to others.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The rich lady cried when she heard that. She had everything money could buy, but she had lost the things money cannot buy.<\/p>\n<p>The beauty of life is there because you put it there, it does not depend on how happy you are, but on how happy others can be because of you.<\/p>\n<p>Happiness is not a destination. It&#8217;s a journey. Happiness is not tomorrow, its now. Happiness is not a dependency, its a decision. Happiness is who you are, not what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Title of the painting &#8211; &#8220;Joy and Inspiration, Nichelle Nichols, Star Trek&#8217;s, Lt Uhura at 84&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Artist &#8211; Robin Damore circa 2020<\/p>\n<p>Credits goes to the respective Owners<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A beautiful woman in an expensive dress came to see me saying that she was depressed and her life was meaningless. I called the old lady who cleaned the office floors and then said to the rich lady, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to ask Mary here to tell you how she found happiness. All I want you &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=43259\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Finding Happiness&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43259"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43261,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43259\/revisions\/43261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}