{"id":41256,"date":"2022-10-18T06:46:49","date_gmt":"2022-10-17T19:46:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=41256"},"modified":"2022-10-18T06:46:49","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T19:46:49","slug":"katharine-hepburn-the-greatest-gift","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=41256","title":{"rendered":"Katharine Hepburn &#8211; The Greatest Gift"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-41257\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Katharine_Hepburn_1933-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"Katharine Hepburn\" width=\"623\" height=\"779\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Katharine_Hepburn_1933-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Katharine_Hepburn_1933.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 623px) 100vw, 623px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The greatest gift ever given to me was the family in which I was raised. All of us were encouraged to think and to cherish what we loved, whom we loved. Whenever doubt came to me, I knew I could defend myself; I could will myself into action.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My parents felt that we should all be educated, and then we were on our own. I got no support once I announced my desire to be an actress. My family asked if I was happy, and that was that. When I wanted private acting classes, I simply couldn&#8217;t afford them, so I asked my father for the money. There was a very long silence. God, was he a stoic. A mountain&#8211;hard and silent. But he got me the money. I think it was ten dollars, a lot of money in those days. He told me it was money he got from gambling&#8211;on golf and cards&#8211;so it was &#8216;dirty money&#8217; applied to a &#8216;dirty business.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He recognized that I was a fool with money, so when I got paid, he told me to take what I needed for rent and food, and to send the rest to him. He invested it. I am here today, solid, because of him. If I needed a dining table, I would have to ask him for MY money, and he would quiz me on the make and model of the damned table! But it&#8217;s that table right over there. Good stuff lasts forever, you see.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He kept me honest and tight. I think I still am.&#8221;&#8211;Katharine Hepburn\/Interview with James Grissom\/1990.<\/p>\n<p>Photograph by Lucha Nelson, 1933.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The greatest gift ever given to me was the family in which I was raised. All of us were encouraged to think and to cherish what we loved, whom we loved. Whenever doubt came to me, I knew I could defend myself; I could will myself into action. &#8220;My parents felt that we should all &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=41256\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Katharine Hepburn &#8211; The Greatest Gift&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-inspiration","category-wealth-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41256"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41258,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41256\/revisions\/41258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}