You may have heard that you get that on which you put your attention. That is true. Your intention is a lot more powerful than you have been led to believe. In fact, it is so powerful that a lot of effort has been put into making you\u00a0 accept the lie that you are only one, weak little person who cannot change much. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you were only one, weak little person who cannot change much, then why put so much effort into convincing you otherwise? But I digress. Let’s get back to the topic at hand.<\/p>\n
The best advice I can give on how to land the perfect partner is to first decide the exact characteristics you want in a partner.
\nAll the things you desire.
\nWrite them down.
\nAnd be realistic about it.<\/p>\n
Things like what goals you would like to share.<\/p>\n
What your combined lifestyle should look like.<\/p>\n
What their personal values and ethic level should be.<\/p>\n
Whether or not they want children.<\/p>\n
Their responsibility level.<\/p>\n
Etc.<\/p>\n
Then decide
\n1. they are going to come into your life,
\n2. you will meet and recognise them,
\n3. they will feel the same about you as you do about them,
\n4. the circumstances and logistics in both your lives do not prevent the two of you making a go of it together
\n5. That their goals and purposes align with yours.<\/p>\n
Then tuck that piece of paper away at the bottom of your underwear drawer so you
\n1. don’t lose it and
\n2. will see it later.<\/p>\n
After that you then have to put yourself in places where your ideal partner can find you. If you are a hermit living in remote territory you seriously cut down your chance of your partner finding you.
\nSome have had success in doing survey work.
\nIf there is no work available where you are you could volunteer or join a club of like-minded people.
\nBut put yourself out there where people can meet you.<\/p>\n
Here’s a testimonial posted on Facebook 21 March 2023 from KJ Kotoisuva, someone who did exactly that!<\/p>\n
“This sexy, Fijian, tall glass of chocolate milk is exactly what I ordered when I was single, praying and writing down my \u201cHusband\u201d wish list.
\nWanna know my secret?
\nI got specific. I mean weirdly specific.
\nWrite it out.
\nPray on it.
\nWent about living my best life till he came knocking
\nJust a happy wife brag post!”<\/p>\n
And you have to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff, as they say, the good from the bad. Hope that helps.<\/p>\n Oh, and one final thing. Work on improving yourself so you are somebody else’s perfect partner too! I saw a great meme that said:<\/p>\n Attract what you expect Let me know when you complete your list!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" You may have heard that you get that on which you put your attention. That is true. Your intention is a lot more powerful than you have been led to believe. In fact, it is so powerful that a lot of effort has been put into making you\u00a0 accept the lie that you are only … <\/p>\n
\nHere are two of the best tools I have come across the help you do that:
\nhttps:\/\/www.scientology.tv\/films\/scientology-principles\/the-emotional-tone-scale-6f3e2b<\/a>
\nhttps:\/\/www.scientology.tv\/films-on-scientology-principles\/dianetics-introduction.html<\/a><\/p>\n
\nReflect what you desire
\nBecome what you respect
\nMirror what you admire<\/p>\n