{"id":38169,"date":"2022-04-09T05:11:07","date_gmt":"2022-04-08T19:11:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=38169"},"modified":"2022-04-09T12:29:49","modified_gmt":"2022-04-09T02:29:49","slug":"your-pets-last-wish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=38169","title":{"rendered":"Your Pet&#8217;s Last Wish&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38170\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Man_And_His_Best_Friend-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Man And His Best Friend\" width=\"588\" height=\"588\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Man_And_His_Best_Friend-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Man_And_His_Best_Friend-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Man_And_His_Best_Friend-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Man_And_His_Best_Friend.jpg 522w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 588px) 100vw, 588px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1rem;\">\u201cPets, it turns out, also have last wishes before they die, but only known by veterinarians who put old and sick animals to sleep. Twitter user Jesse Dietrich asked a vet what was the most difficult part of his job.<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"cwj9ozl2 qbxu24ho bxzzcbxg lxuwth05 h2mp5456 ue3kfks5 pw54ja7n uo3d90p7 l82x9zwi goun2846 ccm00jje s44p3ltw mk2mc5f4 frvqaej8 ed0hlay0 afxsp9o4 jcgfde61 tvfksri0 ozuftl9m\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<div class=\"hqeojc4l\">\n<div class=\"\" dir=\"auto\">\n<div class=\"\" dir=\"auto\">\n<div class=\"ecm0bbzt hv4rvrfc ihqw7lf3 dati1w0a\" data-ad-comet-preview=\"message\" data-ad-preview=\"message\">\n<div class=\"j83agx80 cbu4d94t ew0dbk1b irj2b8pg\">\n<div class=\"qzhwtbm6 knvmm38d\">\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">The specialist answered without hesitation that it was the hardest for him to see how old or sick animals look for their owners with the eyes of their owners before going to sleep. The fact is that 90 % of owners don&#8217;t want to be in a room with a dying animal. People leave so that they don&#8217;t see their pet leave. But they don&#8217;t realize that it&#8217;s in these last moments of life that their pet needs them most.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Veterinarians ask the owners to be close to the animals until the very end. \u2032\u2032It&#8217;s inevitable that they die before you. Don&#8217;t forget that you were the center of their life. Maybe they were just a part of you. But they are also your family. No matter how hard it is, don&#8217;t leave them.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Don&#8217;t let them die in a room with a stranger in a place they don&#8217;t like. It is very painful for veterinarians to see how pets cannot find their owner during the last minutes of their life. They don&#8217;t understand why the owner left them. After all, they needed their owner\u2019s consolation.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Veterinarians do everything possible to ensure that animals are not so scared, but they are completely strangers to them. Don&#8217;t be a coward because it&#8217;s too painful for you. Think about the pet. Endure this pain for the sake of their sake. Be with them until the end.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">&#8211; Tricia Mo\u2019orea<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Photo credit: Travis Patenaude.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<p>(Tom: I\u2019ve been with my last three dogs when they passed and I think it was a helluva lot easier on them than it was on me! My view is that sadness and loss are part of life. They are the down that makes the up so enjoyable. It is unrealistic to desire only up things despite the fact that pleasure is life and pain is death. Sure there are drugs available to enable you to go through life feeling no pain but they also remove the pleasure in life too. So I have chosen to accept the joy, create as much as I can for self and others but recognize that there is no Yin without the Yang. And just because I experience sadness at times it does not mean I am mentally ill, need to see a shrink and be prescribed drugs to numb the pain. I have seen going for a walk and looking at things do more good for a person then dozens of visits to a psychologist or psychiatrist.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cPets, it turns out, also have last wishes before they die, but only known by veterinarians who put old and sick animals to sleep. Twitter user Jesse Dietrich asked a vet what was the most difficult part of his job. The specialist answered without hesitation that it was the hardest for him to see how &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=38169\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Your Pet&#8217;s Last Wish&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38169","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38169"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38169\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38177,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38169\/revisions\/38177"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}