{"id":37122,"date":"2022-01-31T03:34:52","date_gmt":"2022-01-30T16:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=37122"},"modified":"2022-01-31T03:34:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T16:34:52","slug":"two-wolves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=37122","title":{"rendered":"Two Wolves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-37123\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Two_Wolves-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Two Wolves\" width=\"524\" height=\"349\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Two_Wolves-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Two_Wolves-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Two_Wolves.jpg 930w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 524px) 100vw, 524px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s an alleged correction on an old story.<\/p>\n<p>An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. \u201cA fight is going on inside me,\u201d he said to the boy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil \u2013 he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He continued, \u201cThe other is good \u2013 he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you \u2013 and inside every other person, too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, \u201cWhich wolf will win?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The old Cherokee smiled and replied, \u201cIf you feed them right, they both win.\u201d The story goes on. \u201cYou see, if I only feed the white wolf, the black wolf will hide in the dark waiting for me to falter so that it can pounce and get the attention he craves. He will always be angry and will always be fighting the white wolf. But if I acknowledge him, both he and the white wolf can be satisfied, and we all win.<\/p>\n<p>For the black wolf has qualities that I need and that the white wolf lacks: tenacity, courage, fearlessness, strength of will, and resourcefulness. The white wolf instead provides compassion, caring, heart, and the ability to value the needs of others over my own.<\/p>\n<p>You see, the two wolves need each other. Feeding only one and starving the other will eventually make both uncontrollable. Caring for both allows them both to serve you, so that you can do something greater, something good with your time on earth. Feed them both and you will quiet their internal struggle for your attention, and, when there is no battle inside, you can then hear the voices of deeper knowledge that will guide you in choosing the right path in every circumstance.<\/p>\n<p>Peace, my son, is what we must all strive for in life. He who has peace inside has everything. He who harbors a storm within his heart and soul has nothing. How you choose to treat the opposing forces within you will ultimately determine how you live.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s an alleged correction on an old story. An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. \u201cA fight is going on inside me,\u201d he said to the boy. \u201cIt is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil \u2013 he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=37122\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Two Wolves&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-health-tips","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37122","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=37122"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37122\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37124,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37122\/revisions\/37124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=37122"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=37122"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=37122"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}