{"id":31101,"date":"2020-12-19T21:52:53","date_gmt":"2020-12-19T10:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=31101"},"modified":"2020-12-19T21:52:53","modified_gmt":"2020-12-19T10:52:53","slug":"fifteen-signs-youre-in-an-abusive-relationship-with-your-government","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=31101","title":{"rendered":"Fifteen Signs You\u2019re in an Abusive Relationship With Your Government"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Whatever you do, stay out of abusive relationships. Psychologist Richard Schulman lists a few signs that you have become trapped in one. An abusive partner\u2026<\/p>\n<p>1. Stops you from seeing friends and family;<\/p>\n<p>2. Won\u2019t let you go out without permission;<\/p>\n<p>3. Tells you what to wear;<\/p>\n<p>4. Monitors your phone and emails;<\/p>\n<p>5. Controls your finances;<\/p>\n<p>6. Controls what you read, watch, and say;<\/p>\n<p>7. Monitors everything you do;<\/p>\n<p>8. Punishes you for breaking rules that keep changing;<\/p>\n<p>9. Tells you the abuse is for your own good;<\/p>\n<p>10. Pretends to know better;<\/p>\n<p>11. Doesn\u2019t allow you to question;<\/p>\n<p>12. Tells you that you\u2019re crazy and no one agrees with you;<\/p>\n<p>13. Calls you names and shames you;<\/p>\n<p>14. Gaslights you, attempting to change your memory of events; and<\/p>\n<p>15. Plays the victim when things go wrong.<\/p>\n<p>If all this sounds familiar, you might be thinking of our relationship with Big Government under COVID-19 tyranny.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whatever you do, stay out of abusive relationships. Psychologist Richard Schulman lists a few signs that you have become trapped in one. An abusive partner\u2026 1. Stops you from seeing friends and family; 2. Won\u2019t let you go out without permission; 3. Tells you what to wear; 4. Monitors your phone and emails; 5. Controls &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=31101\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Fifteen Signs You\u2019re in an Abusive Relationship With Your Government&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,7,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31101","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-health-tips","category-humourhumor","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31101","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=31101"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31101\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31102,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31101\/revisions\/31102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=31101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=31101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=31101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}