{"id":20766,"date":"2018-12-11T10:57:33","date_gmt":"2018-12-10T23:57:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=20766"},"modified":"2018-12-11T10:57:33","modified_gmt":"2018-12-10T23:57:33","slug":"a-babys-gender-should-be-listed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=20766","title":{"rendered":"A Baby&#8217;s Gender Should Be Listed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A_Babys_Gender-246x300.jpg\" alt=\"A Baby&#039;s Gender Should Be Listed\" width=\"246\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-20767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A_Babys_Gender-246x300.jpg 246w, https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A_Babys_Gender.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 246px) 100vw, 246px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The bits you&#8217;re born with, tell the tale,<br \/>\nIf you&#8217;re female, if not, you&#8217;re male.<br \/>\nIf the spirit is confused<br \/>\nAbout which she is or witch he&#8217;s not,<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll be befuddled and bemused.<br \/>\nNo need to say what is, is not,<br \/>\nNo need to add things on<br \/>\nOr chop things off.<\/p>\n<p>The resolution to his confusion<br \/>\nLies in his discovering that he&#8217;s here<br \/>\nIn this time and in this place<br \/>\nInhabiting THIS body, with all it&#8217;s grace.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s not in some time past,<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s not in some place lost,<br \/>\nWherein he dwelled in a body<br \/>\nNot of the same gender.<\/p>\n<p>To take a certainty of who one is<br \/>\nAnd introduce an uncertainty<br \/>\nIs the mark of an evil intent.<br \/>\nWe all have a right to be certain of who we are.<\/p>\n<p>The evil need to reduce the power and certainty of all others<br \/>\nSo they feel superior and safe.<br \/>\nFor they &#8220;know&#8221; in the blackness of their heart<br \/>\nThat if others were strong and powerful, they would be done in.<br \/>\nBecause that is what they would do to others if they had power.<\/p>\n<p>So when you see a person lie,<br \/>\nAnd say that which is, isn&#8217;t,<br \/>\nOr that which isn&#8217;t, is,<br \/>\nKnow that their intent is evil,<br \/>\nThey mean you no good.<\/p>\n<p>Your gender might be an accident of birth<br \/>\nIt might not match your expection, desire or past experience<br \/>\nBut it is a certainty, of that you can be sure<br \/>\nUnless the insane pull the rug out from under you.<\/p>\n<p>When you feel unsure of things,<br \/>\nRecognise that someone has reduced your certainty.<br \/>\nWhether you feel shaky or you feel down,<br \/>\nDwell not in your mind, it is full of traps for the untrained.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, go for a walk and look at things<br \/>\nTouch the walls, the fence, the bench, the trees,<br \/>\nIncrease your certainty that earth is earth<br \/>\nThat trees are trees, that green is green and brown is brown.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The bits you&#8217;re born with, tell the tale, If you&#8217;re female, if not, you&#8217;re male. If the spirit is confused About which she is or witch he&#8217;s not, He&#8217;ll be befuddled and bemused. No need to say what is, is not, No need to add things on Or chop things off. The resolution to his &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=20766\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A Baby&#8217;s Gender Should Be Listed&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-interest","category-inspiration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20766"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20768,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20766\/revisions\/20768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}