{"id":118,"date":"2008-03-10T20:12:30","date_gmt":"2008-03-10T20:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thomaslgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/2008\/03\/10\/how-to-make-measurable-progress-toward-your-most-neglected-goals\/"},"modified":"2024-07-18T07:13:08","modified_gmt":"2024-07-17T21:13:08","slug":"how-to-make-measurable-progress-toward-your-most-neglected-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tomgrimshaw.com\/tomsblog\/?p=118","title":{"rendered":"How to Make Measurable Progress Toward Your Most-Neglected Goals"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Michael Masterson<br \/>\n&#8220;Don\u2019t be a time manager, be a priority manager.&#8221; &#8211; &#8211; Denis Waitley<br \/>\nTo Master Plan your new life, you must begin with long-term goals that correspond to your core values. From that good start, you must establish yearly and monthly objectives. Based on those objectives, you create weekly and daily task lists. Doing all that will help greatly. But if you want to really change your life, you have to learn how to prioritize.<br \/>\nI didn\u2019t always know how to prioritize. For much of my business career, I relied on goal setting and task lists and was happy with the results. But when I turned 50 and started writing for Early to Rise, I began to read how other business leaders achieved their goals. And that\u2019s when I discovered what a huge difference prioritizing can make.<br \/>\nThe most important lesson I learned came from The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey. In that book, Covey presents a technique for prioritizing that impressed me greatly and soon became a central part of my planning process.<br \/>\nDivide your tasks, Covey says, into four categories:<br \/>\n* Not important and not urgent<br \/>\n* Not important but urgent<br \/>\n* Important but not urgent<br \/>\n* Important and urgent<br \/>\nIn the \u201cnot important and not urgent\u201d category, you would put such things as:<br \/>\n* Catching up on office gossip<br \/>\n* Shopping online for personal items<br \/>\n* Answering unimportant phone calls<br \/>\n* Responding to unimportant e-mails<\/p>\n<p>In the \u201cnot important but urgent\u201d category, you would include:<\/p>\n<p>* Returning phone calls from pesky salespeople<br \/>\n* Making last-minute preparations for an office party<br \/>\n* Attending a required meeting that doesn\u2019t help your career<br \/>\n* Planning for a meeting that doesn\u2019t matter<\/p>\n<p>In the &#8220;important and urgent&#8221; category, you might list:<\/p>\n<p>* Making last-minute preparations for an important meeting with the boss<br \/>\n* Making last-minute sales calls to key clients<br \/>\n* Solving unexpected problems<\/p>\n<p>And, finally, in the \u201cimportant but not urgent\u201d category, you might include:<br \/>\n* Learning how to write better<br \/>\n* Learning how to speak better<br \/>\n* Learning how to think better<br \/>\n* Working on your novel<br \/>\n* Getting down to a healthy weight<\/p>\n<p>When you break up tasks into these four categories, it\u2019s easy to see that you should give no priority at all to \u201cnot important and not urgent\u201d tasks. In fact, these tasks should not be done at all. They are a waste of time. Yet many people spend lots of time on them because they tend to be easy to do and sometimes enjoyable in a mindless sort of way. Or because they are afraid to get to work on important tasks because they are afraid of failure.<\/p>\n<p>Even worse than spending time on tasks that are not important and not urgent is spending time on those that are not important but urgent. They should have been dealt with long before they reached the crisis stage.<\/p>\n<p>If you discover that you are spending a lot of time on unimportant tasks, you\u2019ve got a serious problem. Unless you change your ways, you\u2019re unlikely to achieve any of your important goals.<\/p>\n<p>So which tasks should you give priority to?<\/p>\n<p>In Seven Habits, Covey says that most people think they should give priority to important and urgent tasks. But this is a mistake. &#8220;It\u2019s like the pounding surf,&#8221; he says. &#8220;A huge problem comes and knocks you down and you\u2019re wiped out. You struggle back up only to face another one that knocks you down and slams you to the ground.&#8221; You are &#8220;literally beat up by problems all day every day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All urgent tasks &#8211; both unimportant and important &#8211; are problematic: They are urgent because you\u2019ve neglected something or because they are important to other people (like your boss). In either case, you need to find a way to keep most of them from winding up on your daily to-do list. This means making some changes in your work habits &#8211; usually a combination of being more efficient and delegating more chores to other people.<\/p>\n<p>Urgent tasks will burn you out. And turn you into an unhappy workaholic. If you want transformation in your life, you have to give priority to the important but not urgent tasks &#8211; because those are the ones that will help you achieve your major, long-term goals.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not easy.<\/p>\n<p>The important but not urgent tasks whisper, while the urgent tasks shout. But there is a way to get that critical but quiet stuff done in four simple steps:<\/p>\n<p>Step 1. When planning your day, divide your tasks into Covey\u2019s four categories: not important and not urgent, not important but urgent, important but not urgent, and important and urgent.<\/p>\n<p>Step 2. You will, of course, have to do the urgent tasks &#8211; at least until you get better at taking charge of your schedule. And you will have to find a way to get rid of the tasks that are not important and not urgent. But make sure you include one important but not urgent task that, when completed, will move you closer to one of your long-term goals.<\/p>\n<p>Step 3. Highlight that important but not urgent task on your to-do list. Make it your number one priority for the day.<\/p>\n<p>Step 4. Do that task first &#8211; before you do anything else.<\/p>\n<p>Initially, you will find it difficult to do an important but not urgent task first. There are reasons for that.<\/p>\n<p>* Since it is not urgent, you don\u2019t feel like it\u2019s important. But it is.<br \/>\n* Since it supports a goal you\u2019ve been putting off, you are in the habit of neglecting it.<br \/>\n* You are in the habit of neglecting it because you don\u2019t think it\u2019s important and because you might be afraid of doing it.<br \/>\n* You might be afraid of doing it because you know, deep down inside, that it will change your life. And change, even good change, is scary.<\/p>\n<p>But once you start using this little four-step technique, you\u2019ll notice something right away.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing you\u2019ll notice is how good you feel. Accomplishing something you\u2019ve been putting off is energizing. It will erase some doubts you have about yourself &#8211; doubts caused by years of &#8220;never getting to&#8221; your long-term goals.<\/p>\n<p>That extra energy and confidence will grow, and will fuel you throughout the day. This will make it easier for you to accomplish other important but not urgent tasks.<\/p>\n<p>As the days go by, you will realize that you are making measurable progress toward your neglected goals. In just a few weeks, you will be amazed at how much you\u2019ve already done. And in 52 weeks &#8211; a short year from now &#8211; you will be a brand-new, much more productive person.<\/p>\n<p>That year is going to pass by anyway. You are going to spend the time somehow. Why not do it by taking charge of your schedule? Why not spend that time on yourself &#8211; on what\u2019s really important to you?<\/p>\n<p>(Updated 17 July 2024 Original link no longer valid.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Michael Masterson &#8220;Don\u2019t be a time manager, be a priority manager.&#8221; &#8211; &#8211; Denis Waitley To Master Plan your new life, you must begin with long-term goals that correspond to your core values. From that good start, you must establish yearly and monthly objectives. 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